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Check, Check, Check–Checklists!

My broad checklist includes travel to favorite Northern warm weather destinations prior to heading south [Photo: Lake Wawasee, Indiana] Check, Check, Check–Checklists!  Plan Now for Less Stress Later Winter is months away, yet now is the time to get it together for the upcoming snowbird 

Where Do Sunbirds and Reverse Snowbirds Go?

Sunbirds, like snowbirds, put much thought into location, housing options and affordability [Pictured: Santa Rosa Beach, Florida] Where Do Reverse Snowbirds Go?  Sunbirds Escape Brutal Summer Weather Summer is officially here and no matter where you are located, it’s probably hot and humid. Southern states 

International Snowbirds: Ten Considerations

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Seeking paradise in another country requires much thought and honest evaluation

International Snowbirds

Ten Considerations of Snowbirds in Foreign Countries


The inspiration for this post are the numerous TV shows featuring international travelers who purchase property in another country. You know the ones: ex-pats who have always wanted to live on the islands of the Caribbean, Mexico, the Bahamas, Belize, Bonaire.... the list of exotic places is endless. Portugal is another place growing in popularity, particularly with Canadian nationals.

What characteristic is shared by almost all of these warm-weather countries outside the United States? That's right. They are only accessible by air travel. Maybe by water if you have access to a watercraft vessel, but that's not likely to happen. So, the first consideration is can you even get there?

Mexico is accessible by vehicle, especially for domestic snowbirds traveling from the West Coast. Canadian snowbirds could drive to Mexico, it just depends on how much patience they have. Otherwise, air travel is a faster option, but it does have drawbacks, especially for an extended stay due to needing to ship your possessions.

This post is not about Canadian snowbirds who winter in the United States. The shared language and cultures are not that dramatically different and assimilating into a Floridian, Texan or Arizonian life is probably not too drastic of a change. However, snowbirds from Canada and the United States who venture into Caribbean island life, or countries such as Mexico or Portugal  might find it more challenging. These are 10 considerations prior to jumping in and starting an international snowbird venture.      

 


1. Can you get there?

Can you get there? If the answer for you and your spouse/partner is absolutely YES! you've cleared the first hurdle. If there's lingering questions or underlying doubts about it, then talk it over in depth with your spouse, partner, loved ones. They will help sort it out with a fresh perspective.

An attitude of "I'll just set my mind to it" isn't realistic when your body says otherwise. Trust me, my husband's mother felt she could do almost anything if she just willed it to happen and in her younger years, sure. But after a certain point, being determined to travel is great but not necessarily possible.

[Flying Snowbirds]


2. Can your pet get there?

If you don't have a pet, skip ahead; otherwise, can your pet travel to another country? If your pet is larger, older, battling chronic health conditions or there's more than one, it may likely not be a good fit for them. Airlines have tight restrictions on pet travel and for good reason. Not every pet is a good candidate to travel, just as not every person is either.

If you have a pet and decide it's best not to bring them, then consider leaving them with an extremely trustworthy person. This is not the time to hire a stranger from the internet to pet and/or house sit. There's scary stories about pets being lost, stolen, neglected and killed by so-called "professional pet sitters." People are bonded to their pets yet from a legal perspective pets are merely personal property. So, if someone is being paid to take care of your beloved fur baby and something happens, the laws are not in your favor. You will be devastated and the perp will likely have very few consequences.

Personally, I don't want to purposefully be separated from my beloved fur baby for more than a day or two.


3. Do you have the financial means?

Do you have the funds to travel overseas or to a foreign destination? Many think it will be cheaper or somehow better than domestic costs. Maybe it is, but you won't know for sure unless conducting insightful research prior to booking your time away. Don't forget to factor additional money for airfare, transportation to/from the airport and your rental vehicle if you need one. Don't forget to look into an international driver's license and insurance coverage for your vehicle.


4. Is housing available in your budget?

Is housing available in your budget? Look at all the factors. The cost is one consideration, but it's not everything. For example, Are you seeking a community of ex pats? Will you need a vehicle? Does the place include parking? Outdoor space? Amenities? A great view? Is the area known for crime? What other considerations will affect your housing? If you're bringing a pet, is it pet friendly?

[How to Evaluate Online Rental Photos]


5. Is your passport current?

Is your passport current? If not, give yourself plenty of time to handle it. As in six months. Faster service is possible, but there's an accelerating cost for that and at some point, time runs out.

Is a passport adequate or will you need to obtain additional paperwork and permits for your stay?


6. Can you obtain adequate travel health insurance?

Does your health insurance adequately cover you outside the United States or your home country? If it doesn't, you will need to purchase travel insurance. Be very thorough and check all the fine print. There's too many news reports of accidents and illness that result in a guest being held hostage until the bill is paid.


7. Is there adequate security?

If you are renting a place outside your primary country of residence, will it have the same level of security that you expect? Cameras? Alarms? Gated community? What happens if the systems go down due to loss of power, intermittent or no wifi, storms or other issues? If there is no security available for more than a day, will you be comfortable staying? If the answer is no, then you might want to rethink your plan.


8. Are you prepared for worst case scenarios?

Can you overcome the worst case scenarios of being outside your home country? For example, if you are accused of something, can you battle it in another country? Or worse than that, if you are attacked, assaulted, robbed and more, are you able to deal with the emotional trauma and physical pain?

Do you have a realistic plan if you have an accident or become seriously ill?

On television, the shows lead the viewers to believe nothing bad happens in paradise. However, reality tells another story. Americans and foreigners are easy targets. Locals can easily spot the newcomers and the perception is they are rich -- especially compared to the locals. Many people simply aren't careful when traveling abroad.

Twenty years ago my husband and I were married on a gorgeous tropical island in the West Indies. We felt relatively safe (keyword "relatively"). Here's the thing: the staff of the all-inclusive resort told us not to leave the safety of the resort. We also saw the nightly news reports with public service announcements begging the locals "not to hurt the tourists." Well, ok then. Thank you for reinforcing what we already knew. Be very, very careful when outside your own country. Heed the warnings, don't think "it won't happen to me."

[Nothing Bad Ever Happens at the Beach]


9. Will you be lonely?

Will you be lonely? First of all, if there's a language barrier, that is enough right there to feel you're not a part of a local culture. Second, if you are not naturally outgoing, have any sort of issues with depression or seasonal affective disorder, etc. you may not adapt as easily to a new environment for an extended time.

If there's not a community of ex pats in your adopted country, will you be OK? Having a support network is even more important as time goes on. Depending on the length of your stay, it can feel ten times longer if you are unhappy.

I'm the type of person who likes routine. I prefer the same routine of knowing what to expect in my snowbird community, where I will be housed, with whom I will be surrounded while away and where to go for groceries, restaurants, pharmacy needs, pet issues and much more. It's unsettling to have each and every category of your life uprooted all at once.

If you are outgoing, adventuresome and like the excitement of new places, different cultures and experiences, then choosing to snowbird in a different country is probably a much better fit than someone who prefers the structure of domestic life in a familiar environment.


10. What are your objectives?

While away, do you have goals and objectives that you want to achieve? Perhaps it's scuba diving, snorkeling, stand-up paddleboarding (SUP), surfing, tennis, pickleball and sports courts, hiking, running/walking, birdwatching, photography, organized sports, missions work, volunteering, hobbies such as arts and crafts, cooking local cuisine, and much more. The list is endless and if your target area offers the types of activities of interest to you, you will likely feel more content in your new international community.

[Snowbird Hobbies 125 Ideas]

Life in a place you've always wanted to spend time, learn the language, culture and meet new people is that much better when it aligns with your dreams and goals. Identifying what those goals are in advance can add to the anticipation of international snowbird life. If you decide it's a great fit or have already spent time as an international snowbird, please share your experiences, I want to hear from you.

 


 

"My adopted country has changed me, changed how I see things, changed how I think and feel about things. It has changed my daily life. It has changed me from the inside out.”

--Amanda van Mulligen, Author, Born British, Living Dutch


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In no event will we be liable for any loss or damage including without limitation, indirect or consequential loss or damage, or any loss or damage whatsoever arising from or in connection with, the use of this website.

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Three Housing Options: Rental, Own or RV?

[Santa Rosa Beach, Florida near Point Washington] Three Housing Options: Rental, Own or RV? Firsthand Real Life Briefs from a Popular Web Thread Housing has been and always will be the biggest consideration as well as expense of the snowbird lifestyle. Housing choices dramatically affect 

Extended Season Snowbirds

Extended season snowbirds, as I call them, remain as the spring breakers arrive [Pictured: Pompano Joe's in Miramar Beach, Florida] Extended Season Snowbirds How Everything Changes After the First Week of March For snowbirds who wonder what goes on in their warm weather community after 

Low, Mid and High Rise Buildings

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Low, Mid and High Rise Buildings

A Look at Three Very Different Snowbird Housing Options


Definition of

Low Rise Building

Merriam-Webster Dictionary: Having few stories and not usually equipped with elevators

Mid Rise Building

American Heritage Dictionary: Relating to or being a building of moderate height, having usually more than three and less than eight stories

High Rise Building

American Heritage Dictionary:  Relating to or being a tall building that is equipped with elevators and usually has at least six stories

 


First Things First 

Before even looking at low, mid or high rise housing options, it's important to assess your own and the other occupants' personal needs and abilities. Not just the actual snowbirds, but also any guests or loved ones who are visiting for any length of time. Seriously thinking it over upfront can help avoid selecting an option that just isn't realistic when it comes down to it.

  • How many stairs can you climb? Descend?
  • How many stairs can your pet climb? Descend?
  • Are you able to carry luggage, bags of groceries and other items up or down a flight of stairs?
  • If the stairs are located outdoors, can you navigate them in inclement weather conditions?
  • Do you have a fear of heights?
  • How important is a view?
  • If the elevator/s stop working, can you make it work?

Low Rise Ground Floor

Low rise ground floor units may be in high demand for snowbirds because ground floor units, whether located in a low, mid or high rise building, are ideal for anyone who cannot physically go up or down stairs if there is no elevator. Be sure to check if the unit is ground floor vs. "first floor" or something that isn't actually ground floor. I've seen many buildings that have mixed use space, specifically retail space, on the ground floor and the "first floor" of housing is actually the second floor.

Low rises are not usually ideal for a great view. It will possibly be a worm's eye view or rather flat view of a body of water such as a coastal area. However, if your view is of mountains, woods or a lake, it could work out very well.

Some low rises have outdoor patios, decks or other outdoor space. In the event of building construction, it may cause the outdoor space to close just the same as units with a balcony.

Check to be sure your pet is allowed on the outdoor space or beyond, such as in the grass. Many ground floor units are popular so pets can be taken directly outdoors without having to wait for an elevator or climb stairs, but there may be restrictions.

For security, ground floor units are not typically left open after dark, overnight or when not home.


Low Rise Not on Ground Floor 

Low rise buildings with units not on the ground floor typically do not have an elevator. It's one thing to say climbing stairs is your "home gym," but that can get old fast when you have to carry trash and heavy items up and down, run out to your vehicle, take your dog out and maybe don't feel well.

The older anyone gets, the worse it gets, which means you'll need to eventually find another place.


Mid Rise 

We live in a mid rise condo in the winter and I personally love it. Our top (4th floor) unit is located near an elevator. If the elevator is not functioning, there are three more available from the fourth floor without having to use any stairs. The gulf and pool view from our unit is lovely and when we are on our private balcony, I don't feel like I'm in a fish bowl like some of the other lower floor units in our complex.

In the event of a fire or emergency, I believe a mid or low rise building is the best place to be able to escape.


High Rise 

A high rise building is usually taller than six floors. Skyscrapers are known to exceed 40 or 50 floors, but I'm not getting into skyscrapers here because there aren't likely to be any in most snowbird communities. The view from a high rise is often quite amazing due to the nature of nothing coming in between the building and the scenery. High rises are usually associated with residential, retail, office and other mixed use spaces, which can be very convenient.

Pitfalls of high rises include concerns such as a long elevator ride, especially with a pet, non-functioning elevators and other practical considerations of being forced to use stairs in the event of unavailable elevators. Depending on how many elevators are available, it's likely you will be sharing the space with at least a few others. Odors, conversation or not, loaded utility carts, pets riding with other kids and pets and other awkward situations can arise.

My snowbird friends have tried staying in a high floor unit of a high rise and decided it is not for them. Fear of heights plus a fear of pet/s, people and other items falling or blowing over the balcony are no joke. If you don't have a balcony or outdoor space, that's also a mixed concern because fresh air is important.

Another concern is if you have to walk from central elevators to your high floor unit. The wind at that height can be unreal and it's even worse if the weather is bad.

Overall, a high rise has the most concerns to address in my opinion, but everyone is different and I have a friend who always comes back to her favorite high rise.

Think all of the options through carefully and make an informed decision based on your abilities and personal needs. Never hesitate to do your research of what others have found with the places they stay and why they prefer the choice they've made.


 

"To know the road ahead, ask those coming back.”

-- Chinese Proverb


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In no event will we be liable for any loss or damage including without limitation, indirect or consequential loss or damage, or any loss or damage whatsoever arising from or in connection with, the use of this website.

Through this website you are able to link to other websites which are not under the control of Midlife Snowbird. We have no control over the nature, content and availability of those sites. The inclusion of any links or advertisements does not necessarily imply a recommendation or endorse the views expressed within them.


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The information contained in this website is for general information purposes only. We make no representations or warranties of any kind, express or implied, about the completeness, accuracy, reliability, suitability or availability with respect to the website or the information, products, services, or related graphics contained on the website for any purpose. Any reliance you place on such information is therefore strictly at your own risk.

In no event will we be liable for any loss or damage including without limitation, indirect or consequential loss or damage, or any loss or damage whatsoever arising from or in connection with, the use of this website.

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Ten Years of Snowbirds – Now Vs Then

A great view of the beach and gulf has never waivered as our top priority for our snowbird residence Ten Years of Snowbirds – Now Vs Then A Look Back at Our First Decade of Being Snowbirds The first year we became snowbirds, it was 

How to Solve Your Live Plants Dilemma

How to Solve Your Live Plants Dilemma Set Up a Self Watering Irrigation System Definition of Dilemma: “A situation in which one has to choose between two or more… plans that are equally unsatisfactory: a difficult choice.” Source: https://www.merriam-webster.com/dictionary/dilemma To have live plants at home 

Simple Ways to Add Holiday Sparkle to Your Snowbird Home

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Easy Ways to Add Holiday Sparkle to Your Snowbird Home

Keep it Simple, Make it Special, Showcase your Local Environment


Years ago Midwestern friends visited us while they were in our southern city for Thanksgiving. My friend asked if I planned to decorate for the upcoming holidays? My first reaction was absolutely not. How would I ever pull that off? Especially when we stay in our condo for a couple of weeks in Autumn and don't return again until January.

Upon mulling it over, I decided I could do it, but not in the same way as my primary home. I would need to re-evaluate priorities to make an impact on an appropriate scale. Less is more, keep it seasonally neutral and don't overdo with too much stuff, which can make a cozy space feel that much smaller.

Whether you own or rent your warm weather home, adding holiday sparkle is a fun way to celebrate the season, especially if you're missing being away from your primary residence. If you rent out your place, your guests will appreciate your effort to make them feel home for the holidays. The key is to display meaningful yet minimal decorations that feel special with an emphasis to reflect the local environment. 


First Things First 

Because most snowbird homes are small in scale, make a plan, then work the plan. Are you going to decorate the kitchen and living space? Bedroom/s? Bathroom/s? Front door? Patio, lanai or balcony? A huge impact on how much to do is related to how much will realistically fit into your vehicle to and from your destination. If you store your holiday items on site, how much will reasonably fit into the allotted space?

Next, consider who will be installing and removing the decorations? If it's you, that's ideal. If it's someone you hire or designate, then how much time will it take them to do it?

Are there any considerations that may damage the decorations? Will anything be unattended outdoors for periods of time? Can the decorations withstand the handling of your cleaning crew? Your guests? Children? Puppies? I quickly realized this season that our young pup was all too happy to chew up the seasonal items that our previous beloved senior dog had ignored.

At our rental condo, no one ever decorated it for the seasons, but it didn't matter to me because we didn't arrive until January.

During October the second year after we purchased our condo, I added special seasonal decorations. Well, I hadn't thought about the cleaning crew moving the items around to clean the glass table tops. And........... in the process the beautiful details of the festive faux evergreen arrangements were very obviously askew by the time I arrived in January to put them away for the season. Not the look I wanted our guests to see. Lesson learned. I reworked the items that could be made more fool proof and replaced the ones that would never stand up to any sort of airflow, movement or handling.


My Plan is the Same Every Year

My plan is the same every year. Lightly decorate the main living area, kitchen, bathrooms and that's it.

The balcony and front door are not on my list because:

1. The elements of the wind, rain, sun, salt and inclement weather would not be good for anything left outdoors on the balcony. Our HOA does not permit items to be attached to the exterior walls and throw pillows or knick knacks might fall off the patio table or a gust of wind will blow them to the next neighborhood. Live plants would not have anyone to take care of them, although I would do that if we had a caretaker to help with it.

2. A holiday wreath on the front door is lovely, but not from late October to January. The last thing I try to do is annoy my own and others walking past by "pushing the season" too soon.

The primary (and only) bedroom is also not on the list. I don't see the need to make every single space in our small condo explode with a theme of some sort. The bedroom is a respite, a sanctuary, a place to relax and rest. So, I don't decorate it for the seasons, but if you like a seasonally decorated bedroom, go for it. My plan isn't necessarily your plan.


Begin With The Basics, Finish With a Few Showstoppers

What are the very basics to decorate your snowbird rental or home? Let's start with the obvious. Here's a few ideas to add a festive touch:

Kitchen:

Hot pads, kitchen towels, soap dispensers, coffee cups, seasonal towels with ribbons displayed in a small basket

Bath:

Soap dispensers, hand towels

Living/Dining Area:

Seasonal puzzles, faux greenery arrangements, small knick knacks, coasters, festive round ornaments in a driftwood bowl, battery operated candles, decorative textured pillows, a soft throw blanket for the sofa or easy chair

A Few Showstoppers:

An extra special wreath or faux greenery arrangement, a local element such as a handmade Christmas tree made of starfish, local artwork in a frame, special garlands, a tall glass ornamental container with hard candy in it, lighting or a small Christmas tree. Autumn items include a beautiful glass pumpkin on the server buffet surrounded by shiny, sparkly elements from the craft store. There's many creative ways to be festive and much inspiration to be found in local retail stores and online

Parting Thoughts

My overall goal is to use color, texture and simple items to create a holiday feel that includes elements of Autumn as well as December holidays and last, but not least, New Year's Eve.

Remove and store items that will be replaced with your seasonal decor. Never pile on the seasonal items with the regular stuff. It's too much.

I make a special effort not to feature religious decorations in our rental because we want guests to feel welcome no matter what their beliefs are. An example is we have a nostalgic seasonal puzzle that features Golden Retrievers with a freshly harvested evergreen in the back of a vintage pick-up truck in a snowy country scene. It's just the right amount of hint of the season and because we are pet friendly, the pups add an emotional connection with our guests.

It's a good idea to minimize or entirely avoid large typography designs on decorative elements and/or overt references to cold weather. If your guests are at the beach to get away from snow, they really don't want to be blasted with "Let it Snow" messages on pillows, soap dispensers and hand towels. If your throw pillows are too much to look at all the time, they will get stuffed in the bottom of the closet or a drawer. I've been there. It's reality.

Have fun with your own ideas, there's no right or wrong answers. A little effort does go a long way to make your snowbird home extra memorable, fun and festive.


 

"Make it simple, but significant.”

-- Fictional Character, Don Draper, American TV Series "Mad Men," 2007 - 2015


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In no event will we be liable for any loss or damage including without limitation, indirect or consequential loss or damage, or any loss or damage whatsoever arising from or in connection with, the use of this website.

Through this website you are able to link to other websites which are not under the control of Midlife Snowbird. We have no control over the nature, content and availability of those sites. The inclusion of any links or advertisements does not necessarily imply a recommendation or endorse the views expressed within them.


DISCLAIMER

The information contained in this website is for general information purposes only. We make no representations or warranties of any kind, express or implied, about the completeness, accuracy, reliability, suitability or availability with respect to the website or the information, products, services, or related graphics contained on the website for any purpose. Any reliance you place on such information is therefore strictly at your own risk.

In no event will we be liable for any loss or damage including without limitation, indirect or consequential loss or damage, or any loss or damage whatsoever arising from or in connection with, the use of this website.

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Your Travel Dream is Not Mine (and Vice Versa)

Your Travel Dream is Not Mine (and Vice Versa) How I Finally Handled A Decade Long Hot Button For the past twelve years, a single hot button question has plagued me. It comes up almost every time I encounter someone who is familiar with both