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Two Alternate Travel Options To Get to Your Destination

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Snowbird Housing Deal Breakers

Snowbird Housing Deal Breakers Hint: The Deal Breakers are Personal and Nuanced Price, location, view, pet friendly and availability are all deal makers. They’re also the deal breakers. However, there’s more to it than that. It’s the nuances of a particular rental that may or 

Here Vs. There: A Candid Case Study

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Here Vs. There: A Candid Case Study

The Emotional Impact of Trading Proximity to Family for Full Time In Your Southern Community


If you've ever wondered what it might be like to live in your snowbird community full time, consider this case study of one mostly retired couple who relocated from Ohio to Florida. They've had three years to absorb and analyze the emotional impact of what it means to move away from friends and family. I recently spent a Sunday morning with my friend, Kaley, and we had a candid personal conversation about the challenges she has encountered by making her southern community her full time home base.

On the plus side, Kaley and her husband purchased what they considered to be a reasonably priced home with an inground pool in a mature residential area in the heart of downtown Destin, Florida. A pool in a southern climate makes sense because the weather will be warm or hot much more than the Northern climate. However, since that time housing prices have skyrocketed as has homeowner's insurance. She said it is about $6,000 per year for insurance largely due to being in a coastal area, but Kaley said so far property taxes have been relatively reasonable.

Kaley felt that having a pool would be a draw for their family to want to visit, especially her grandchildren. Yet Kaley quickly acknowledged her teen grands have a pool at their own home, although pool season is much shorter in Ohio. The gorgeous nearby white sandy beaches of the Emerald Coast don't exactly repel anyone either. There are many other attractions in the area for just about any age or ability. This is what is so appealing to tourists and full time residents alike.

Housing and the allure of pools and the beaches are just one factor of being based in your warm weather community. Kaley shared that she and her husband are seriously considering moving back to Ohio. Caught by surprise, I listened carefully.

Family and friends are hugely important and that is Kaley's biggest Achilles heel. Yes, it's typically not a problem to make an effort to get acquainted with new friends in any area and be happy with them, although it does take time to do that. Kaley didn't say, but I'm fairly certain it must be challenging to sustain meaningful friendships in a community where the majority of the population is comprised of transient tourists. Snowbird friends tend to come back every year, but then they are gone again right about the time you find your groove. There's a large gap of time in between. Close friends from home will typically visit once and they may or may not return.

Family is another thing. They obviously cannot be replicated or substituted. For many snowbirds, family and friends are two of the biggest reasons to remain in close geographical proximity. No one ages backwards and there's only so many resources be with family who live a significant distance away. Kaley has made many trips back to Ohio for various occasions, but no one can be there for every single gathering or life event. Grands are born and grow up quicker than anyone is ready. There's no price that can be established for time with family. Therefore, if either the parents or adult children move away no matter what the reason, there's pros and cons. Hence the conundrum.

Kaley researched the costs of moving back to their original home base in Central Ohio. Insurance is still reasonable because they would be land locked. However, housing and property taxes are expensive which means she and her husband would be trading lower insurance for high property taxes.

Another consideration is which one of their three adult children to be nearest? The children plus grands are located in three different cities and it would be at least a two hour drive each way if they chose to base near one of the three families.

Kaley and I both personally know of parents moving to the same city as their adult children only to be frustrated with the outcome. Kaley pointed out that her friends moved to Virginia to be near their children and grands. After a period of time the grands and their family were transferred and now the parents were in a location where they didn't have many friends and now they didn't have family either.

Another friend of Kaley's moved close to family and said they see their family and grands the same amount of time as before they moved there. Although grandparents realize teens are busy with school and their own friends and activities, it's not pleasant to miss out on a relationship with them, especially when they are in the same vicinity. Regarding the adult children, it's even less pleasant to feel your children are avoiding you after the effort made to relocate nearby. This is another subject entirely and one that is all too common.

Kaley and I didn't delve into the hurt feelings, resentment and emotional issues of moving to be closer to family only to find the significant life-changing gesture isn't exactly welcome, but that is the reality of making a huge change. If Kaley and her husband move back to Ohio, who's to say how much time they will actually have with their family? To be fair, when Kaley and her husband moved away from Ohio, their children and grands, it almost certainly had an emotional impact on the remaining family. 

Whether snowbirds stay with the status quo by splitting time between two homes or permanently relocate to their southern community, there's no easy answers. For those who aren't particularly close to their adult children, whose children don't live nearby, who don't have children/grands or whose core family is no longer surviving, there's still extended family, friends, neighbors, community and the long time roots connecting anyone to a particular place.

Ultimately, each situation is personal and unique. There's several wise adages to consider before making any major life changes: "The grass isn't always greener" and "Be careful of what you wish for" are two that come to mind. No matter what Kaley and her husband decide, there's always trade offs. I believe the best option is to consider what is best for each individual or each couple, not what is best for everyone else.     

    


"Stress is caused by being here and wanting to be there.”

-- Eckhart Tolle, German born spiritual teacher and self-help author


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Here Vs. There: The Top Question I Am Asked the Most

Here Vs. There: The Top Question I Am Asked the Most Why Snowbirds Consciously Choose to Live In Two Places Curiosity about the choice to live in two places vs. one primary home are what I am commonly asked when the subject of being a 

What The Golden Bachelor Has in Common with Snowbirds

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BeachFront, Ocean Front, Ocean View: What to Know

An example of prime beachfront property, the units are directly accessible to the sand at ground level. Miramar Beach, Northwest Florida.
An example of prime beachfront property, the units are directly accessible to the sand at ground level. Miramar Beach, Northwest Florida.

Beachfront, Ocean Front, Ocean View

What to Know About the Nuances of Beach Rental Terminology


Snowbirds looking for a place with "beachfront" in the description may be surprised to find out the actual distance to the shoreline can be quite a hike for some properties or quite the opposite with mere steps to the sand. 

The nuances of view, beachfront and ocean/gulf front are a continual source of confusion for both property owners and potential guests. It's enough of an issue that a very popular all-inclusive resort with many Caribbean island locations dedicated an entire web page to the subject with beautiful photos to illustrate exactly what you will actually get when you book their rooms and suites.

There are many informal online groups and third party travel agency sites dedicated specifically to matching guests with rental properties. Local and regional groups offer a forum for potential guests to make a request seeking properties specifically within their preferred criteria and owners will respond if they have something available. It's not a question of whether the guest or rental unit will mistakenly interchange the terms, it's just a matter of when it will happen. No one wants a surprise upon arrival, so error on the side of acquiring information beyond a doubt.

What exactly is the difference of beachfront vs. ocean/gulf front? Or ocean view? It can vary widely because there is no authoritative standard definition for beachfront, ocean front and ocean view. No one-size-fits-all for beach rental terminology exists, which is why there is so much confusion. You may encounter a wide range of properties that are "ocean front" or "beachfront" and all could be correctly labeled yet be wildly different.

Here's what you need to know before booking a property.

Beachfront typically implies ground floor and a short distance to the sand. However, you may encounter properties who consider "no road" between the unit and the beach to be beachfront, despite being located in a high rise or quite a distance from the actual beach. An ocean front room is also ocean view, but an ocean view room is not necessarily ocean front. An ocean front accommodation may be situated near the water and an ocean view unit may be located much further inland, even half a mile or more away in some cases.

Ocean view indicates you can see the ocean/gulf somewhere from the interior, but it won't be directly facing the ocean -- which is considered ocean front. Never assume the ocean view will be from the interior, it could be from somewhere on the balcony or patio area. Your balcony may be way in the back of the complex or it may be an inline side balcony that requires leaning over the railing to see the ocean view. Likewise, ground floor units may or may not have a visible view of the ocean, it all depends on whether obstructions such as pools, fences, landscaping and topography block all or part of the view. Partial views, sliver views, balcony views, side views, direct views, rooftop views, panoramic views and unobstructed views are all nuances of ocean view. 

If all else fails, price will offer a huge clue about the property. The most expensive will be beachfront, followed by ocean front and then ocean/gulf view. No view is also something to consider for snowbirds on a budget or who simply want to be in a desirable location near the water, but perhaps in a unit with with other features such as detached home or cottage, private pool, covered parking or fenced yard.

For your convenience, I've compiled dictionary definitions for some of the most common beach terminology, but it is not intended to be anything other than a point of reference. Invesigate, then evaluate all of the information you gather with the facts. Don't get caught up in the promotional photos and marketing sizzle before you have the actual facts. Clarify if the photo/s you are looking at are general views of the overall property or are they of the actual unit where you will be staying. Ask a lot of questions, confirm the information in writing and take a virtual video and/or photo tour of the specific unit you are considering before making a decision about renting a new place, whether staying for a few nights or much longer.   

 

Dictionary Definitions of Terminology

Because there is no authoritative standard source of beach terminology relating to the hospitality and travel industry, I've compiled definitions from reliable sources that pertain to the literal meaning of beachfront, ocean front and ocean view.


BEACHFRONT

Cambridge Dictionary

Noun. A strip of land along a beach

Collins Dictionary

Noun. A strip of land bordering on a beach

Merriam-Webster

Noun.

1.  A strip of land that fronts the beach

2. The usually sandy or gravelly land bordering a body of water


OCEAN FRONT

Collins Dictionary

Noun. Land, buildings, etc. along an ocean shore

Merriam-Webster Dictionary

Noun. A shore area on the ocean

Oxford Dictionary

Noun. The land that borders an ocean


OCEAN VIEW

Cambridge Dictionary

Definition not available

Collins Dictionary

Definition not available

Merriam-Webster Dictionary

Definition not available

Oxford Dictionary

Definition not available


VIEW

Collins Dictionary

Countable Noun. The view from a window or high place is everything that can be seen from that place, especially when it is considered to be beautiful.

Merriam-Webster Dictionary

Noun. All that can be seen from a certain point

Oxford Dictionary

Noun.

1. The ability to see something or to be seen from a particular place

2. A sight or prospect, typically of attractive natural scenery, that can be taken in by the eye from a particular place


SHORELINE

Collins Dictionary
Countable Noun. A shoreline is the edge of a sea, lake, or wide river
Merriam-Webster Dictionary
Noun.
1. The line where a body of water and the shore meet
2. The strip of land along the shoreline

Oxford Dictionary

Noun. The line along which a large body of water meets the land


BEACH

Collins Dictionary
Countable Noun. A beach is an area of sand or stones beside the ocean
Merriam-Webster Dictionary
Noun. A shore of a body of water covered by sand, gravel, or larger rock fragments

Oxford Dictionary

Noun. The shore of the sea, on which the waves break, the strand; spec. the part of the shore lying between high- and low-water-mark


 

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Cook Like a Pro: The Basics

Beautiful and simple butternut squash pasta with freshly grated parmesan cheese Cook Like a Pro The basics of cooking like a professional chef When it comes to cooking, I’ve found that snowbirds fall into two groups: the non-cooks and the foodies. I consider myself a 

Where to Shop to Furnish Your Vacation Rental

Where to Shop Where to shop to furnish your vacation rental or second home Personally, I’m not a shopper. I’d rather do almost anything else than run to the store for something. Professionally, I’ve become adept at finding everything needed to furnish our vacation rental 

Flying Snowbirds

Cosmo is an international flying snowdog who lives in Germany and has made seven round trips to NW Florida since he was a pup
Cosmo is an international flying snowdog who lives in Germany and has made seven round trips to NW Florida since he was a pup

Flying Snowbirds

Are you a good candidate to fly to your warm weather destination?


Flying snowbirds are a bit of an enigma because they are much smaller in numbers around our snowbird community. However, small in numbers or not, there are basic considerations for future flying snowbirds. In many ways it seems like a great idea, but it's not without drawbacks too, which is probably why flying snowbirds are not the majority in my warm weather community. Snowbirds in the Hawaiian islands are a unique situation because everybody must fly there.

Below I will share the personal story of a special lady I met on the beach. She is inspiring for her independence as a solo snowbird who annually flies to her destination despite her health and financial challenges. Patti's story is both heartbreaking and heartwarming, which is why I feel compelled to share it. If you have personal experience as a flying snowbird, please reach out. I want to hear from you.


Are you a good candidate to fly to your warm weather destination?

Be completely honest and answer these questions for yourself and any travel companion/s, spouse, partner and pet.

  1. Are you healthy enough to fly? If you require special assistance due to health issues, mobility and more, it's important to address it before going further with your plans.
  2. Do you have recent experience with air travel? Not from five or ten+ years ago, things have changed a lot in the last few years.
  3. Can you successfully navigate through the airport terminal/s and make any necessary connections for each leg of your journey?
  4. Do you have enough physical stamina to fly? It's a very long process, is usually exhausting and that's if all goes to plan with no delays.
  5. Can you comfortably fit into the seat? Seats are much smaller and tighter than in the past unless upgrading if it's available.
  6. Are you able to adequately move from the front of the cabin to the back of the plane where the lavatory is located?
  7. Do you have a pet that will be flying with you? Large pets must fly in cargo and all pets must pay fees and provide health certificates.
  8. Can your pet realistically endure the duration of the trip mentally and physically? Be fair and know it's hard on them due to separation and added stress.
  9. Are you able to pare down your necessary possessions to travel by air for an extended time away?
  10. Does the price of the airfare fit into your budget? Check current airfare rates and prepare for sticker shock.
  11. Do you have an effective plan to get to/from the airport in each of your communities? No one wants to park their vehicle at the airport for weeks or months at a time.
  12. How will you get to your final destination? Is someone or a service available to pick you up?
  13. What mode of transportation will you use for the duration of your stay in your snowbird community? Walk? Rent a vehicle or bike?
  14. Do you have a contingency plan in the event of unforeseen travel delays? Weather, mechanical, work strikes and other unanticipated events may cause delays or cancelled flights.
  15. If you are flying internationally, do you have all of the proper paperwork, current passport/s and other documentation?
  16. Are you OK with less flexibility for changing flights? Some airlines only fly on certain days of the week and/or sell out their flights during peak dates.

Logistics, Logistics, Logistics

Snowbirds by nature must be very organized and savvy about what to pack or not. Flying snowbirds take it to the next level. There's three options for snowbirds who do not own a place in their warm weather climate: pare it all down to a couple of suitcases; ship boxes to/from your destination or store it locally when not there.

Renting space in a self-storage unit can work for repeat flying snowbirds. The keyword here is repeat. It is a challenge to make sure you can come back each year and get your things out of storage if you no longer plan or are able to return. Many snowbirds want to return only to endure unexpected health, financial, family or other problems. If a flying snowbird must become a road trip snowbird to retrieve their possessions, it can be an expensive financial and/or personal challenge.

Beware of accumulating too much stuff in your storage unit as well as the expense of a monthly unit. It is not by any means "cheap." Think it over before you decide if it's that important to you. If your annual cost of a storage unit is $1,000, are your stored items worth it?

Snowbirds who have their own place can certainly leave things behind and not have to bring it back and forth. When I say "leave things behind" that could also include a vehicle. However, if the vehicle will be parked outside, it can become damaged from weather or other trauma. Any vehicle that isn't driven for weeks or months at a time is very likely to require maintenance when you return.

I know of two couples in their early sixties who selected Hawaii as their desired winter home. They have no other choice than to fly there from the Midwest. After a few years, one couple stopped going due to the expense plus distance and bought a condo in the Punta Gorda area of South Florida. The other couple stays in Maui with her daughter and grandchildren for four or five months at a time. They bought a vehicle to use while there and leave it behind the rest of the year.

Flying international snowbirds come to the US for various reasons. One neighborhood couple is based in Germany with their dog, Cosmo, who flies to NW Florida in the cargo section of the plane. They met and married during his military career and now they spend extended time in Florida and Texas to visit his American family every season. Heidi said Cosmo does OK with cargo travel, he has made seven round trips since they adopted him as a puppy, but it's a major consideration for dog owners who fly.


Check Travel Rates and Dates

One huge disadvantage of being a flying snowbird is the loss of flexibility. The cost of airfare, fees and availability are at the discretion of the airlines. The best of carefully made plans can be upended in a matter of hours due to weather delays and cancellations. Direct flights are the best option for many travelers, but during the winter, many airlines reduce their direct flights because they aren't as popular as peak vacation season. If your departure city is not a major hub, you may have one or two connecting flights and layovers. This adds to stress, especially if there are delays.

Other airlines only offer flights on certain days of the week, which can create a domino effect for snowbirds who don't have flexibility to check in early or check out later than their booked dates.

Airfare rates during the holidays are always higher and snowbirds who return home during Spring Break can expect to pay more and that's if there's any seats available.

Air travel has become quite expensive. If you haven't priced tickets lately, take a look, the fees may surprise you.


Future Flying Snowbirds

My in-laws purchased a place in South Florida about two years ago. They have a medium sized older dog and are able to drive to/from NW Ohio. However, they realize at some point they will become flying snowbirds because of the distance from their primary home. When the time comes, if they have another dog it will need to be small enough to travel in the cabin with them. They'll also need to work out all of the logistical concerns of being flying snowbirds because "traveling light" is not exactly their current motto.

One of the biggest factors when choosing a snowbird community is how much it will cost and how will you get there. South Florida generally has warmer weather than Northern Florida, but the trade off is that comes at a higher expense as well as additional travel time. [Location, Location, Location: Peak Vs Off Peak]

Road trip snowbirds who become flying snowbirds will have adjustments and trade-offs to make. Our former Northern neighbors discovered exactly what this means when they transitioned. They fly direct on a budget airline to the Sanford, Florida airport near Orlando. However, they still have to make transportation arrangements to get themselves and their luggage to their park model home that's located about an hour's drive south of the airport. Let's face it, one of the main reasons my former neighbors became flying snowbirds is due to their age. Now they are relying on their snowbird community neighbors to be able to navigate Orlando traffic. It is an imposition on whoever the designated driver is and Dave and Diana have to organize their flights to work with their own schedule as well as the driver. At some point, a professional driver may be the best choice for their needs.


Patti's Heartwarming and Heartbreaking Story

One evening I was walking solo on the beach, taking photos of the sunset. Another nearby woman was also doing the same thing and we ended up walking and talking together. During the conversation we realized we were both staying at the same condo complex. The lady told me her name is "P - a - t - t - i -- Patty with an i." Right away I noticed she was different due to her speech, her physical features and she had an unusual gait. She walked with a laborious slant to one side and her brimmed bucket-style fishing hat was pulled kind of low. It partially hid her muscle disfigurements of her face and eyes.

Patti told me she is 67 years old, lives in Minneapolis and has been a solo snowbird for six years. She said she never married and has several great nephews and two cats at home. Patti explained she "walks all day" because she stopped driving 21 years ago. Patti had a stroke at the age of 45 and was diagnosed with Multiple Sclerosis at that time, also known as MS. She said she's probably had MS since her teen years and didn't realize it until the stroke.

Patti loves her snowbird lifestyle so much that she said "saves all of her money" from her $1,500 a month retirement and disability income so she can travel to the beach. Because Patti comes from Minnesota, she always buys trip insurance from the airline. One season her flights and accommodations became out of sync and she ended up departing Florida five days after she had to check out of her rental, so she stayed at an Extended Stay hotel. The change fee from her trip insurance covered the cost of one of the hotel nights. Patti's taxi fee from the airport to the beach is around $75 each way and if she needs to go anywhere during her time away, she pays for an Uber driver. She relies on deliveries as much as possible.

Patti confided she has a social phobia, but in her adopted southern community, "Everyone is so nice to her" and it eases her phobia. The beach truly does bring people together. As we said goodbye, we agreed we hoped we would see each other again. I went upstairs to write down Patti's story and reflect on how blessed I am. Thinking about Patti makes me teary, her story is heartbreaking. I can't imagine what she has to deal with every day just to get her essentials for daily living and yet she makes it work. I felt the 20 minutes I spent with Patti were especially inspirational and heartwarming because of her bravery to make a dream happen every year: to be a snowbird who just happens to fly.


 

"Life is a journey, enjoy the flight.”

-- Unknown


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How to Book Direct With Owners

How to Book Direct With Owners Where to Find Rental Owners and Avoid Extra Fees One common question I encounter from snowbirds is how and where to find rental owners and property managers. It’s a great question and with some diligence, it can be done.