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The Snowbird Housing Scramble

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Under Construction: Thank You for Your Patience

construction scaffolding on front of condo complex
Always follow safety precautions, never interfere with the work and compliment the efforts and results

Under Construction: Thank You for Your Patience

The Realities, Do's and Don'ts When Your Complex is Under Construction

Winter is the off season for the vacation rental markets that snowbirds tend to choose for their warm weather communities. Peak season is when school is out for holidays and breaks plus the ultimate summer vacation months from Memorial Day to Labor Day weekend. Thus, the off season is November through March, exactly the months snowbirds migrate south.

It should not come as a surprise that maintenance and/or construction projects are typical for any housing community, especially in the off season. Private homes and condo complexes want to avoid as much disruption to guests during peak season when rental prices are at a peak. No one wants to inconvenience anyone at anytime, but if the work has to be done, it will likely be in the winter months.

Be proactive and ask your owner or property manager each and every year if there will be any work being done to your complex and/or rental unit. Ask specifically what will be done and when. Be aware construction projects rarely begin and end when scheduled. Expect the unexpected and go with the flow. It's frustrating, yes, but it's also beyond anyone's control other than the construction vendor/s and HOA. Owners have zero to minimal input or influence on anything despite misconceptions to the contrary.

Some, but not all snowbirds tend to forget part of the reason the off season rates are so enticing is due to the time of year, weather and the likelihood of disruptions from maintenance and construction. Therefore, if it comes down to inconveniencing summer guests who pay a weekly rate comparable to the monthly rate of snowbirds, we know the snowbirds will be the ones adjusting to the construction. 

This season our 188 unit condo community is undergoing major work. As in expensive work. Comprehensive all-encompassing work. Much of it is required by the State of Florida as part of the legislation enacted after the Surfside tragedy in South Florida several years ago. Some is for aesthetics such as changing the exterior color of the buildings from a sandy warm beige to summery white. The work is to ensure safety as well as aesthetics.

Our HOA spent millions of dollars to pay for the construction work and the owners paid the HOA for the work via special assessments. The HOA and owners have a vested financial interest in making sure the work is completed on time with as few disruptions as possible. Delays are bad for business and the whole point of the rental business is to maximize the number of nights that can be sold to guests.

That means snowbirds need to understand and agree to abide by everything they are asked, not put up a fight about it and move to another location if it's too much for their sanity. This can and does happen. However, snowbirds are generally not in a position to play hard ball or negotiate rates if their rental property is in high demand. Other guests are eyeing the place and complainers will be easily replaced if they get out of line. I'm not saying not to politely ask about a reduction of rate, just don't argue and threaten if the response is not what you think should happen. Either accept it or move on. 


Construction Zone Do's

  • Safety first! Pay attention to marked construction zones, overhead hazards and any potential hazards to you or your pet/s and vehicle/s.
  • Follow all instructions related to parking and restricted areas.
  • If you have questions, need clarification or other pertinent business related to the construction, go through the proper channels. Typically that would be to ask the point of contact for your rental. If you rent through a management company, start there. If you book direct with the owner, go to the owner first. Let them get back with you about the answers to your questions.
  • Expect and anticipate unpleasant conditions such as noise that can be extremely loud, dust, chemicals, restricted areas, restricted parking, limited amenities, limited elevator access and much more. This is part of the growing pains of construction. 
  • Thank and compliment all persons who contributed to the success of the project if you are presented the opportunity. This might be the owner, property manager or others who appreciate feedback that the work and money spent was worth it and meaningful. 

Construction Zone Don'ts

  • Never violate or circumvent barriers that are in place to prevent access to balconies, parking or other restricted areas.
  • Do not talk to construction workers, request anything or interfere with the operations or work being done. This applies to both owners and guests. The fastest way to annoy lots of people is to attempt to get involved or interact in the smallest of ways other than smiling or being cordial to the workers as they pass by. As much as you really want early access to your parking spot, patio or balcony resist the urge to directly talk to the construction crew.
  • Don't complain about anything to neighbors, owners, property managers or the construction employees or vendor. It's stressful for all involved and complaining is not a wise move, especially if your motive is to try to band together and receive special favors or gang up.
  • Don't allow pets or your guests to create problems, keep them informed of what is expected during the construction project.

"It is not the beauty of the building you should look at: it’s the construction of the foundation that will stand the test of time.” 

--David Allen Coe, American country music singer, songwriter, guitarist


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The Hardest Goodbye

Our beloved Bodie and Dan shortly before Bo’s cancer diagnosis, Miramar Beach in Northwest Florida, November 2024 The Hardest Goodbye One Last Snowbird Season with our Beloved and Terminal Golden Retriever Eight years ago we excitedly brought our strong, stubborn, energetic male Golden Retriever puppy, 

Pre Check-In List for Snowbirds

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Online Groups: Sort Out the Nonsense

Surf Hut, Miramar Beach, FL

Online Groups: Sort Out the Nonsense

How to Sift Through the Answers and Motives of Online Q&A's


Prior to the rise of the powerful internet and social media, information was exchanged and shared in person, in local establishments amongst patrons and through traditional media channels such as newspapers, magazines and other sources. 

That has changed over the years to now include information shared within online specialty groups dedicated to geographical areas and specific interests. This created an increased need to be aware of the Q&A responses within the groups. Don't believe or buy into everything that is discussed and stated as fact within the groups. When I titled this post, "Nonsense" was the most polite way to describe two initials that I would have rather used: B and S. 

As an example, I've seen online administrators shoot themselves in the face and feet as recently as today. I was flabbergasted when a very large Facebook group of thousands of members dedicated to local snowbirds in Northwest Florida informed their audience that "Starting November 1st, Only Snowbird Business will be permitted. No Rental Advertising!"

A member of the group said, "I like seeing the places available. Is it a problem posting them?" and was told by the administrator, "Most Snowbirds have already found places to stay for the winter. We want to focus on promoting our activities offered by the club for the winter."

A logical follow-up question was posed, "Every year many of us have to find a place to rent in order to come and enjoy those activities. It is becoming more difficult each year to find a place at the right price. Maybe there could be a separate place on the web site to post them so anyone interested could go have a look."

A second administrator said, "Rental postings will be allowed on the "XYZ" snowbird page March 1-Oct 31" and sent the woman to ANOTHER generic web site that doesn't have anything to do with snowbirds or rentals. It's simply a geographical group for Northwest Florida.

Wow, just WOW! Unbelievably short sighted.

In response to the member who asked about rentals I replied, "Wow, like you, I think there's many people who need the snowbird rental info all year round. I know this because I see the requests online and there's many reasons snowbird bookings are not yet complete. I recommend joining private Facebook rental groups such as..." I then listed three excellent groups. I really wanted to say much more, but refrained. Smart administrators would want to keep their members engaged within their OWN group, not send them elsewhere. Motives, common sense and Facebook groups do not always go together and it's important to be able to sort out the nonsense.

Nonsense is not just limited to one type of online group, it's found in every group. It takes a discerning person to sift through it and determine what is the truth vs. opinion. Of course we all have opinions, but there's many online opinions that are misguided or expressed with a motive, ignorance or naivety. By naivety, I am referring to "lack of experience, wisdom, or judgment." The weather, politics, food, housing, activities, generalities and much more are all subject to nonsense. Motives include the patrons who genuinely do not like or want snowbirds or anyone else "invading their" communities. Even though they chose to live in seasonally populated areas, they openly despise what they consider to be intruders and try their best to overtly or covertly dissuade. 

An example, a general question about what is the weather is like in a particular area during the winter is not uncommon. Answers range all over the place, but the most infuriating are when a local or someone with an agenda gives an extreme answer such as "It's freezing cold, we have temperatures in the 20's, fountains freeze and it's awful, you don't want to come here in the winter." When anyone calls out the person who posted the answer, they get defensive and point out, "Well, one time years ago we had a frozen fountain, here is the photo to prove it."

Had the question been posed as, "What is the most extreme range of temperatures will I find in the area?" then by all means, give the extreme hot, extreme cold, worst case hurricane, tornado and storm situations and anything else that has ever happened once in a lifetime or even once in a season. However that's not the intent of what was asked. The intent of the question is, "In general, what is the weather like?" I recommend also fact checking answers by looking online at the mean temps as reported by the weather authorities in a geographic area. Ask the same question in different groups or in different ways to see what many people respond with, not just one who acts like they are the self-appointed final authority.

There's an acronym to remember not just for evaluating answers in online specialty groups, but for any information posted online. It was developed by Michael Caulfield of Washington State University, Vancouver to help evaluate whether online content is credible and reliable information. SIFT: S Stands for S as in stop, take a moment and pause before responding or taking action; I = Investigate the source/s; F means Find alternate facts and cross check coverage and T = Trace back to the original source.

For snowbirds, "S" first and foremost indicates "What is the impact of the answer/s for me as a snowbird?" Look at the motives, intent and make decisions based on multiple sources, multiple questions phrased in different ways and consistent answers that can be fact checked.    


"The pendulum of the mind alternates between sense and nonsense, not between right and wrong."

-- Carl Jung, Swiss Psychiatrist, Psychotherapist, Psychologist


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How Much is Too Much Stuff?

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From Summerbird to Snowbird

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The Off Season Solo Traveler

Exploring the upscale and historical Frangista Beach neighborhood was a memorable highlight of my solo trip to paradise
Exploring the upscale and historical Frangista Beach neighborhood was a memorable highlight of my solo trip to paradise

The Off Season Solo Traveler

How I Overcame Trepidation and Found Calm as a Solo Traveler in Paradise

Many snowbirds love traveling in the off season. My snowbird friends include solo widows and widowers. Although married, I found myself in a situation to travel solo. As stated in my "How to Pack for a Weeklong Getaway in a Beach Bag post, this is how it came about:

"When the opportunity arose to stay at the beach for a week, I didn't hesitate to go for it. It would be just me, solo, for a Saturday to Saturday week in paradise. My husband and dog would stay behind largely due to my dog's physical restrictions from a recent knee surgery and also because of the remaining portion of our kitchen reno. The reno was already scheduled with our vendor and contractor and the dog was absolutely not able to travel. My husband could not leave, but he was very supportive of my decision to get away. For me, this would be a workcation combining deep cleaning our vacation rental in the middle of peak season with leisure time enjoying the beach service reading a book under an umbrella."

"There are a few adjustments I would make, but overall it was a success and I could and would do it again."

To be perfectly honest, I didn't go on the trip without trepidation or concerns. There were times I questioned my decision, especially within the first few days upon arrival. I secretly wondered if I should reschedule my flight and depart on Wednesday instead of the planned date of Saturday. Quickly recognizing I would have wished I was still at the beach if departing early, I decided it would not only cause regret, it would be a huge mistake. "Be in the moment, adjust and enjoy" is what I told myself.

I've flown solo and traveled solo for a few days, but never for a full week. Being homesick is a concern that many, including me, wonder if it will happen when away as a snowbird as well as this summer getaway. For my solo work-cation, I felt a very real possibility of becoming homesick and/or physically ill -- perhaps feverish, bedridden and who knows what could happen. "No one will be there to take care of me." Don't borrow trouble is the best answer I came up with. I brought a digital thermometer to take the guesswork out of the "Am I or aren't I feverish?" and it provided just the right amount of sanity and comfort that it was there if needed.  

As a married woman at the beach during peak summer vacation season, I was surrounded by a sea of families. Grandparents, parents, couples, teens, kiddos and babies. All of them in groups and very much enjoying themselves. "I don't fit in. I'm solo, married and not looking to mingle." That's OK. I decided it's fine to do my own thing, be friendly, polite and low key, but enjoy the other guests from an arm's length. Summer travel is completely different than snowbird season. Snowbirds are outgoing on purpose because we all know we will run into the same people for weeks or months at a time, hopefully in the present and for years to come.

My sister reassured me that I would adapt and start to develop a new normal. She should know, she bravely relocated to Oahu, Hawaii almost a decade ago without knowing anyone and quickly integrated into the Hawaiian culture and her new island life. For years my twin walked everywhere because she did not have a vehicle. For my weeklong work-cation, I purposefully chose to walk everywhere. I don't need a car or the trappings of my suburban life in Indiana. I can walk everywhere too. I don't need a delivery driver to drop stuff off. I can get it myself by walking to the store or skip it for a week. Embrace the pedestrian lifestyle and that is exactly what I did. 

I also thought about the strong solo snowbird men and women who spend the entire winter in their warm weather communities and successfully make it work. I have female school classmates and friends who travel solo and seem to be just fine if not even stronger based on their experiences I've witnessed on social media. I can do it too!

After I got past my self-doubts, I began to embrace my time alone and find my own new normal. I changed pace into a different routine and realized change is not that bad. Early in the morning starting around 6 am, I completed the "work" part of the work-cation. I missed my husband and beloved Golden Retriever, but I didn't have to deal with their daily care. Nor did I need to be particularly quiet or especially tidy like at home, where I have to keep socks, towels and food out of reach of the dog. After a light breakfast of restaurant leftovers, I headed to the beach for time to enjoy the waves and beach lounge chairs. Some days I frequented the community pools AND the beach.

Mid-day was the hottest, so back to the condo for a late lunch and a nap in the air conditioning. One day it was so hot and I was craving something sweet I managed to chase down the ice cream truck. A $5 ice cream sandwich never tasted so good. Although there was a heat index over 104 degrees most of the week, I cleaned up for dinner and took an afternoon walk in the very hot heat to the restaurant of the day. I enjoyed local authentic New Orleans Cajun meals, fresh seafood, gourmet pizza and on the last day, a special treat of key lime pie. Although daylight is longer in the summer, I didn't want to be out past dark.

Highlights of my walks included exploring the upscale historical Frangista Beach neighborhood and visiting The Emerald Coast Winery, a charming wine tasting room featuring wines made of local round-shaped Muscadine grapes that are native to the Southern United States. 

I spent evenings on the balcony and very little time watching tv. Instead I read a book that had been on my to do list and worked in between the leisure time. The purpose of being at the beach was both work and a vacation and not working is not a good idea. So I made sure not to lose focus.

To be perfectly candid, my husband also grew in the week I was away. He stepped up with the work that I usually do when home and went above and beyond with managing the kitchen renovation project, the care of our convalescing dog as well as running our core business. 

The ever present sights and sounds of the Gulf of Mexico were just the thing to provide a zen kind of calm. Waves crashing onto the shore. Sugary white sand. Chilly wine spritzers at sunset. In one week I changed, grew and created my own time away that was perfect for me. The new memories I made for my very special time at the beach was just the thing I needed. Yes, I will absolutely do it again!


"It's only after you've stepped outside your comfort zone that you begin to change, grow and transform."

-- Roy T. Bennett, Author of "The Light in the Heart"


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How to Pack for a Weeklong Getaway in a Beach Bag

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