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The Off Season Solo Traveler

Exploring the upscale and historical Frangista Beach neighborhood was a memorable highlight of my solo trip to paradise The Off Season Solo Traveler How I Overcame Trepidation and Found Calm as a Solo Traveler in Paradise Many snowbirds love traveling in the off season. My 

How to Pack for a Weeklong Getaway in a Beach Bag

How to Pack for a Weeklong Getaway in a Beach Bag Pare it Back to the Bare Essentials, What to Take, What to Leave Behind I am a snowbird who readily admits traveling light is not my thing. I overpack — mostly on purpose — 

What are you missing along the way?

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What Are You Missing Along the Way?

Fantastic side trips await to/from your snowbird destination


I asked my snowbird friends, "When going to or from your winter destination, do you stop and see things along the way? Surprisingly, they don't. The explanation is, "We're in a hurry to get there on the way south and when we leave, we're in a hurry to get home."

My husband is like that too. For many years we bypassed all kinds of wonderful and enticing side trips because of a perceived lack of time to stop along the way. Finally, I insisted we take an extra detour and visit Ivy Green, the childhood home of Helen Keller, the deaf and blind child whose entire life changed drastically for the better due to her teacher, Anne Sullivan. I got the idea to visit the Keller homestead in Northwest Alabama due to perusing the racks of travel brochures in the lobby of our hotel along Interstate 65 in Athens Alabama. Not only did we visit Helen Keller's home, we inadvertently stumbled upon the famous FAME Recording Studios in Muscle Shoals, Alabama. Now we need to go back so we can visit the FAME Recording Studios, Muscle Shoals Sound Studio, Frank Lloyd Wright Rosenbaum House and other area attractions in the Shoals-Florence area of Northwest Alabama.

[Destination: Helen Keller Birthplace Tuscumbia, Alabama]

A friend told me about a charming area south of Nashville, Tennessee that she and her husband like to visit once in awhile. She said it has a lot of history and is not that far from I-65. I'm in! So, I convinced my husband we needed to stop in Franklin, Tennessee. Wow, what a great choice! Not only was the area irresistibly endearing, it is the site of a huge civil war battle. Despite it being a chilly, rainy day, I enjoyed our driving tour of the area, especially when we stumbled upon Battlefield Park and the haunting confederate cemetery. I would like to return to Franklin, Tennessee again soon.

This year, I read about Peach Park, Alabama. It is located in Clanton almost exactly in the center of the state from North to South and East to West. Right off I-65. So, we stopped and I fell in love with that too. Chilton County Alabama is driven by the local multi-million dollar peach industry and although it was the off-season, Peach Park features a very popular local BBQ restaurant with indoor and outdoor seating plus a charming shopping area that is dedicated to gifts, peaches and related products including peach jam, peach jelly, peach butter, peach ice cream, cobbler and many other Southern delicacies such as Praline Pecans. These are not like the ones you find anywhere else. There's also a giant peach in the garden area, a playground, RV park and live entertainment if you are there at just the right time. Check, check, check! This was the first, but by no means the last time we will stop at Peach Park.

Another memorable and must-do again side trip is the historic and elegant Brown Hotel in downtown Louisville, Kentucky. Our first year as snowbirds we took an opportunity to visit the hotel's restaurant, J. Graham's Cafe and enjoyed a fabulous lunch of iconic Hot Brown sandwiches created in 1926 by the chef at the Brown Hotel. As if that wasn't enough, we ordered The Original Kern's Kitchen Since 1968 Derby Pie® for dessert. Both were absolutely outstanding. Rich, creamy, heavenly. Crave-worthy. The Brown Hotel is an anchor of Kentucky's "Urban Bourbon Trail" and a great place to visit. I was so inspired by our side trip to the Brown Hotel that I published a recipe for a Bourbon Chocolate Nut pie influenced by the authentic, Original Kern's Kitchen pie served at the Brown Hotel.

[Bourbon Chocolate Nut Pie Recipe]

Never one to finish my to-do list, I have future plans to try new places along the way to and from our beloved snowbird home. Thanks to the internet and the lobby racks filled with the brochures, there's many establishments beckoning. Jack Daniels Distillery in Lynchburg, Tennessee; Sinatra Bar and Lounge in Nashville, Tennessee; Belmont Mansion in Nashville, Tennessee; the Civil Rights Trail in Montgomery-Selma, Alabama and Kentucky's Bourbon Trail. The Corvette Museum and Mammoth Cave are popular Kentucky attractions along the I-65 corridor and there's many more wineries, craft breweries and one-of-a-kind local tours such as the Haunted Canoe Trip after-dark ghost tour. Whatever you like, there's much to be discovered if you simply take a look at the options and then make it happen.

"Reclaim your curiosity, your sense of adventure and have some fun. Don't take every moment of your life so seriously. Allow yourself to enjoy life."

-- Akiroq Brost, Author


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Thinking of Renting Out Your Primary Home? A Checklist

Proximity to local attractions such as wineries, entertainment, sports facilities, shopping and restaurants will help bring guests to your property. [Country Heritage Winery, Laotto, Indiana] Thinking of Renting Out Your Primary Home? Checklist of 15 Considerations Prior to Placing Your Primary Property on the Rental 

Two Alternate Travel Options To Get to Your Destination

Nashville Tennessee skyline Two Alternate Travel Options How to Get to Your Warm Weather Destination Without Driving Yourself At some point, every snowbird must decide whether to continue driving themselves to their destination. It’s a tough decision snowbirds face for various reasons.  As snowbirds age, 

Snowbird Housing Deal Breakers

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Snowbird Housing Deal Breakers

Hint: The Deal Breakers are Personal and Nuanced


Price, location, view, pet friendly and availability are all deal makers. They're also the deal breakers. However, there's more to it than that. It's the nuances of a particular rental that may or may not work for snowbirds. 

Recently, I was asked to tag along on a tour of a potential rental for two Wisconsin-based snowbird friends with an adorable Golden Retriever named Cooper. My friends decided to take a look around at the options because they weren't entirely sure about returning to their current place. Their rental rates were increasing and they had other concerns about the place. Not only did they gain valuable insight to what matters to them, the tour opened my eyes to mistakes by owners. To my astonishment, after touring several properties and considering everything, my friends decided to stay where they are.

This is an account of what the deal breakers could be and why owners should listen carefully to the feedback from potential guests. It can save a ton of headaches for both parties.

    


Plan A Year In Advance

Snowbirds in general, like to plan way in advance. As in a year or more. My neighbor, Elaine and her husband and pooch have always stayed in the same unit for the month of January. She said finally -- two years from now in 2026 -- they will be staying for January AND February. It has taken that long to get a booking for the full two months. Past availability was not a deal breaker in this case, but for many it easily could have been. Elaine didn't say, nor did I ask, if the current February occupant is aware of what is happening. Snowbirds, always stay connected with your property manager and/or owner so they can work with you on your future plans. No one wants to be blindsided.

On the flip side, Wisconsin Terri was told it was "too soon" to reserve the unit she was considering for next year. This is exactly the opposite of how I think. Again, not allowing to book a year in advance would be a solid reason for many snowbirds to keep looking.

Owners: if a guest wants to book for next year, take the reservation! If you have qualms about a cancellation, request a significantly larger deposit of a minimum of $1,000 and extend the pay-in-full due date to be 90 or 120 days in advance instead of 60 days or whatever the standard policy is for weekly rentals. It's a huge commitment for snowbirds and owners to pledge 60 consecutive days vs. the usual 7 days, but each party needs assurances they will have a solid deal.

Snowbirds: Make sure there is a solid, written contingency plan if an owner cancels your reservation or sells the property before your arrival. If you book through a management company with a large property portfolio, get it in writing that you will be rebooked into a similar or better property in the event of unforeseen circumstances. It is essential all deposits and pre-paid funds will be refunded if the owner and/or PM do not have a suitable property available.


Weather, Distance, Transportation

Unfortunately no one is aging backwards which means at some point weather, distance and transportation increasingly become a problem for snowbirds.

Several friends are facing this issue due to age, health and concerns about driving to and from their snowbird communities. Dee from Colorado relies on her son to bring her to and from her southern home in Northwest Florida. He has asked her to consider a closer location in Arizona to make it easier for him. Except there are no beaches in Arizona, which understandably puts Dee in a quandary.

The weather this winter has been one of the worst for as long as many can remember which doesn't help Dee's decision. Time will tell if distance and weather are the deal breakers for Dee.


Privacy

I've personally witnessed an increase of doorbell cameras installed on the exterior of rental properties. For some, this could be a deal breaker simply because they don't want to be photographed every time they come or go. Nor do they want their belongings, packages, guests and deliveries to be documented. Not that there's anything illicit happening, it's simply a lot for guests to accept and it could make or break a rental to snowbirds or anyone else for that matter.


Storage, Storage, Storage 

Snowbirds typically stay for at least 30 days and usually 60 or even 90+ days. They may book by the week or by the month, but it's a totally different set of needs than the weekly vacationers who are in and out in seven days.

Therefore, what might be just fine for a family who is not going to be in the unit all that much for a week in peak season compared to snowbirds who have an extended stay and accordingly bring a lot more clothing and "stuff."

I kid you not, a friend toured a property that had a locked closet in the second bedroom. Presumptively it was full of the owner's possessions. Guests are expected to put their clothes on hangers dangling from three or four racks mounted at a 90 degree angle on the bedroom wall.

No! As in, "Are you kidding me?" Absolutely there is no way I would want to spend 30-60+ days looking at clothing dangling from the walls. My friend and her husband do not share a bedroom and her husband would be the one with his clothes decorating the walls. The owner refused to make accommodations and ultimately, this was the deal breaker.


The Devil's In the Details 

Vacuum cleaners, mops, pots and pans, utensils, cleanliness, decor and more matter. Even beyond that, the details, large and small, can make or break a snowbird's willingness to rent a unit.

I know of a snowbird who didn't like the mattress in the primary bedroom. She said it was very uncomfortable and she tried every possible option to improve the situation, including sleeping on the unit's bunk bed. Worn out or sagging furniture is also another potential deal breaker.

Features such as very short vanity cabinets in the bathrooms may not be noticed in photos, but could be a problem for tall guests.

Snowbirds who can take a tour of a potential place should do so, it's worth the time to do so because you can pick up so much more than seeing photos. If it's not possible, ask a lot of open-ended questions. Prepare a list of potential deal breakers, then be honest about what your non-negotiables are. Know your limits and be patient. It can take time to find just the place. Once you find what works for you, protect your investment and plan accordingly.


 

"Use discernment. Guard your heart. Ask questions. Pay attention to red flags.”

-- Michael Bliss, Canadian Historian and Author


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In no event will we be liable for any loss or damage including without limitation, indirect or consequential loss or damage, or any loss or damage whatsoever arising from or in connection with, the use of this website.

Through this website you are able to link to other websites which are not under the control of Midlife Snowbird. We have no control over the nature, content and availability of those sites. The inclusion of any links or advertisements does not necessarily imply a recommendation or endorse the views expressed within them.

Here Vs. There: A Candid Case Study

Here Vs. There: A Candid Case Study The Emotional Impact of Trading Proximity to Family for Full Time In Your Southern Community If you’ve ever wondered what it might be like to live in your snowbird community full time, consider this case study of one 

Here Vs. There: The Top Question I Am Asked the Most

Here Vs. There: The Top Question I Am Asked the Most Why Snowbirds Consciously Choose to Live In Two Places Curiosity about the choice to live in two places vs. one primary home are what I am commonly asked when the subject of being a 

What The Golden Bachelor Has in Common with Snowbirds

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Lake Kalamazoo , formed as part of the Kalamazoo River connects the twin towns of Saugatuck and Douglas

What The Golden Bachelor and Snowbirds Have in Common

The Golden Bachelor and Snowbirds Have Another Chance at Finding Love


More than 7.7 million viewers to date have watched the first season of ABC's premier hit show "The Golden Bachelor" featuring America's favorite new senior, 72 year-old Gerry Turner [pronounced GAIR-ee] who happens to live in Northeast Indiana, just like I do. Not only did ABC capture the senior viewing audience, younger fans are also watching and taking notes of dating in your 60's and 70's. As a snowbird, I've personally witnessed my snowbird friends in various stages of relationships who found love again and it's really not that different from the hit show. 

ABC created spinoff, "The Golden Bachelor" to showcase seniors after 27 successful seasons of "The Bachelor/ Bachelorette," which features the lusty antics of twenty-somethings, typically in a gorgeous setting, including the latest incarnation, "Bachelor in Paradise." Many viewers are already familiar with the premise: An attractive, single young man or woman is featured on the reality show to select their potential lifelong mate from a dating pool of alluring types who aren't shy about sharing and showing it all for the cameras. No one will accuse the young people of being boring, they put it all "out there" in more ways than one. 

We all know 20-somethings and 70-somethings are not in the same dating universe, physically or mentally. However, there's a lot to be said about the differences as well as the similarities. The differences are fairly obvious with the enticing young people of "The Bachelor/Bachelorette" just starting out with their dreams, career, love life and future families. The seniors have been there, yes, but as seniors it's much more complicated. Not only do the senior singles have to cope with the loss of a spouse due to death or divorce, their life choices are much broader with the opinions and wishes of adult children and grandchildren to contend with, financial and retirement plans and the logistics of where to live when your new flame resides in another part of the nation. It's not so easy to pack up and move from the entanglements of loved ones when you've spent most of your life building on that core family unit.

Similarities with Bachelor/Bachelorette's highlighted on the first season of The Golden Bachelor is how active and attractive the seniors are. Not only are the single seniors very energetic, they are noticeably physically fit, fashionable and fun! A little more discreet than their younger counterparts, they speak in double-entendres to flirt and finesse their onscreen romance.

Audiences of The Golden Bachelor identified with the 22 beautiful and accomplished ladies featured on the show as well as the very easy-on-the-eyes, tall, tan and handsome leading man, Gerry Turner. Ladies dream of a man like Gerry because he made each woman feel he was personally connecting with her and her alone. He attentively listened to each woman, responded to her joys and concerns and showed appreciation, all while being very diplomatic and quite charming. What's not to like? Snowbirds are very familiar with this concept, whether dating or making new friends and it definitely works.

The viewers also appreciate the genuine sincerity of the friendships and support of the ladies who lived as a group in a gorgeous Southern California "fantasy mansion" when the show filmed in August and September of 2023. Not only did the ladies share guest rooms, they shared their hopes, dreams and heartaches. They prepared meals together, styled each other's clothes, hair and makeup to look their best, had leisure time fun in the pool and looked after not just themselves, but their families at home. Several of the women made tremendous sacrifices including one who chose to be absent from her daughter's wedding and two who removed themselves from the show to be there for loved ones they felt were in great need at home. All of the ladies truly seemed to want to find love again just as much as the leading man, Mr. Turner.

Many online and interview comments have noted the personal accomplishments of the cast of The Golden Bachelor. Not only are these seniors looking for true love, they have been at that point in their life where mistakes have been made resulting in self-growth. Having had months and years of reflection, they are ready to make the move, put it all out there and go for it! Snowbirds are like-minded. They are not snowbirds because they didn't take chances and risks throughout their lives. 

The final episode of The Golden Bachelor concludes tonight, November 30, but the fascination with seniors dating and marrying in their golden years has only just begun. It isn't about scoring the "prize" of winning the first Golden Bachelor's heart, the cast is well aware there are 22 ladies vying for the affection of just one man. However, the overwhelming consensus is that single seniors, whether snowbirds or not, can find renewed optimism that their own Golden Bachelor or Golden Bachelorette is out there and like Mr. Turner, that person does exist and inspires men and women to remain active, never give up hope and keep the dream of finding love again. 

    


"Because when I look at you, I can feel it. And I look at you and I'm home.”

-- Dory, "Finding Nemo," 2003 American animated comedy-drama adventure film produced by Pixar Animation Studios for Walt Disney Pictures


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In no event will we be liable for any loss or damage including without limitation, indirect or consequential loss or damage, or any loss or damage whatsoever arising from or in connection with, the use of this website.

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Packing 101: Quick Tips for a Shorter Stay

Plan your travel bags so each person knows exactly how much space they are allotted for clothing, kitchen, bath, office and pet/s. Packing 101 Quick Tips for a Shorter Stay If you’re like me, packing is a pain and a task I have yet to