Author: midlifesnowbird

Impact of COVID-19 – 45 Ways to Emerge Better

Lives paused: the psychological and economical impact of the pandemic forced weddings, celebrations, travel and so much more to abruptly halt The Impact of the Global COVID-19 Pandemic 45 Ideas for Snowbirds to Emerge Even Better than Before Without a doubt, the month of March 

Southern Cuisine: Gumbo Fest

Southern Cuisine: Sandestin Gumbo Fest Northwest Florida’s Premier Winter Food Event The heart and soul of Southern culture that brings everyone together is food. Food is love. Food is tradition. Food is celebrated. Gumbo is one of the most beloved foods of the Gulf Coast. 

Snowbird Packing and Prep Four Week Timeline

Snowbird Four Week Packing Timeline
Plan your travel bags so each person knows exactly how much space they are allotted for clothing, kitchen, bath, office and pet/s.

Snowbird Packing and Prep Four Week Timeline

Snowbird Checklists for Leaving Home


Snowbirds have a dual goal prior to departure: not only packing, but prepping their home for an extended time away. Packing and prepping for departure is important, unavoidable and time consuming, but it is easily my least favorite aspect of being a snowbird. I like organization, structure and predictable outcomes; however, the timing of packing and prepping is tricky because there's so many variables that can affect even the most well-prepared snowbird.

You might think you're on target only to have a near-miss almost derail your plans. As an example, about a week before we departed our first season, the back yard started retaining alarming levels of water. We had to find and hire a company on short notice to trench our drainage tile further away from the house. Another year, water came out of the recessed ceiling light on the lower level and a  plumber had to be called in to help us. The stress, expense and timing of unforeseen last minute issues is exactly why snowbirds need to offset by managing prep and packing as much as possible.

By setting up a four week timeline, it can help reduce the panic of overlooking essential items. If you pack too soon, the likelihood of duplicating items or fishing things back out increases, while packing at the eleventh hour, also known as "panic packing" greatly improves your chances of forgetting stuff. Sure, you can try to get a member of your home team to go over to your house, retrieve your eyeglasses, spare keys, wedding ring, medication, favorite shoes or whatever it is, then pack it up and ship it, but who wants to pile on that kind of added responsibility when you're already asking a lot as it is?

To reduce guesswork, I've outlined a basic four week timeline to aid with planning projects and assist with gauging where you generally need to be at each weekly interval. Weeks four and three have a much broader tone than the last two. The last two weeks ideally should be focused on minor tasks if at all possible and only the most essential social plans. Be prepared for hitting burnout around the two week mark. When it happens, and it will, acknowledge your feelings, take a break and double down when you are ready. Don't forget to give extra attention to your pet/s -- they sense and react to your stress and all of the changes. Help them feel safe and secure with extra love and nutritional supplements.


Snowbird Packing and Prep Four Week Timeline

Four Weeks Out

Make Lists, Lists and More Lists

Lists are the lifeblood of snowbird packing prep. Without the basic framework of to-do's, how can anyone possibly know if they are on track? Make lists, post them in plain view on your bathroom mirror and refrigerator and assign who is doing what. Then start knocking them down line by line.

Snowbird Packing Timeline
Don't forget to give extra attention to your pet/s -- they sense and react to your stress and all of the changes. Help them feel safe and secure with extra love

Snowbirds who depart after the December holidays need to be even more organized due to the rushed frenzy of decorating, entertaining, shopping and socializing only to tear it all down and pack it away to redirect energy for prepping, packing and departing. I prefer to remove all winter seasonal items and set up for the season we return, spring. I don't want to come home to a time capsule. Our Northern neighbors take the opposite approach so there's less stress prior to heading out the door. Either way, there's a mountain of work to do and separating tasks into many different lists is a good start.

Lists can be organized by categories such as:

  1. Work/Career
  2. Personal: Health care, grooming, financial, civic, etc.
  3. Rooms of the house: bedroom, kitchen, bath, office, garage, storage room, etc.
  4. Pet/s
  5. Social Life: plans with friends and loved ones
  6. Clothing/Accessories
  7. Daily meals for the last week to use up your perishables
  8. Last minute departure checklist

Finalize and complete the highest priority projects

How to decide what is the highest priority? What will be a major issue if it doesn't get done in advance of departure? Then work backwards from there. An example would be your security system. If you already have a monitored alarm service, but no cameras installed, then make sure it gets completed no later than four weeks ahead of departure. The same is true for installing devices such as automatic timers for your interior and exterior lights. Not only do you need time to schedule projects with third parties, you'll also want to thoroughly field test your new or existing systems. Restock batteries so your home team can easily replace them if needed.

[TEN LAYERS OF SNOWBIRD SECURITY]

Think about how your unoccupied home will appear to anyone from the exterior as well as from the interior. If you keep your curtains closed to retain heat and privacy, consider replacing lighter colored window treatments so they blend in better from the street view. Dark blinds and curtains draw less attention than treatments with a white liner.

If your home is occupied while you are away, window treatments that don't attract attention will help ease your mind whether open, closed or slightly askew.

From here, tackle your next highest priority projects. For me, this includes a major sweep of the house to declutter, shine and polish every surface, plus make cosmetic improvements. This year, we focused on installing new light fixtures in four areas of our home and took on a partial kitchen remodel -- a remodel that best case, will not be completed until a few hours before we leave. I do not recommend this at all. It is too much.

With four weeks to go:

Tackle the largest, most essential projects to prep your home: repairs, painting, added security, deep cleaning, sorting and donating items to charity, etc.

Check your home's major systems, such as furnace, sump pump, security, etc. Schedule maintenance or repairs as necessary.

Connect with your home team to make sure they are still on board.

Working snowbirds have the added huge responsibility of prepping their contact lists and files, computers, inventory, parts, vendors, shipping/receiving and so much more. Good organization and communication of who is doing what and when is essential. Use lists, double check and cross check. There's no shortcuts here, stay ahead of your self-determined deadlines as much as humanly possible.

[WORKING SNOWBIRDS]

Let your snowbird friends know of your travel timeline.

Book your hotel for the trip down, if it's not already done.

Clean and spiff up your guest rooms and any infrequently used areas of your home that you want to sparkle. Nobody wants to leave an unkempt house, but prepping guest rooms is the very last priority as you're flying out the door, which is why it should be done far in advance.

Decide if you are turning your water off. Most long term snowbirds with vacant homes do, but there's pros and cons if you're away for weeks vs. months.

Pack your pet's travel bag: There's typically no reason your pet's bag can't be packed four weeks in advance with the caveat that the last minute items will wait until the days prior to departing. Everything your dog needs while away should be packed and ready:  medical paperwork, canned food, new and favorite toys, treats, heart worm and other meds, flashlight/s, bandanas, brushes, vitamins, etc. Of course, dog bowls, food, bedding and leashes will need to wait until the last minute.

[PET PREP COUNTDOWN]


Snowbird Packing and Prep Four Week Timeline

Three Weeks Out

Execute Your Lists and Projects

With three weeks to go, continue knocking down items on every list and re-evaluate what is realistic to accomplish prior to departure. Order anything that needs to arrive before departing.

Now is the time to start staging the items that need to travel with you. Start by selecting things you know you won't need to use prior to leaving. As an example, I pull beach towels, warm weather clothes and shoes from my closet, inspect them for any issues, then place them together so I can get a visual check of what is or isn't on deck.

[WHAT TO PACK, WHAT NOT TO]

Wash, iron and take articles of clothing to the dry cleaners if needed.

Start staging your kitchen, bathroom, office and laundry items that need to travel with you.

Stop purchasing any unnecessary perishable refrigerator or pantry items. This is the time to be consuming or weeding out your fridge/s, freezer/s and cupboards, not adding to your inventory. It won't taste any fresher when you return, so eat it up.

Complete all necessary appointments prior to or during the three week window. An example, salon and hair appointments plus anything else such as appointments with your financial planner, legal or tax advisers.

Schedule your pet's grooming appointment.

Order anything that needs to arrive prior to departure.

Clean the refrigerator/s.

Clean the garage.

Clean all hard floor surfaces.

Wipe down your baseboards.

Repair items and paint as needed.

Schedule your vehicle's check-up if not already completed.

Pack your cash and any gift cards you plan to use while away.

The majority of your social engagements should be completed during the last two to three weeks prior to departure.


Snowbird Packing and Prep Four Week Timeline

Two Weeks Out

Fine Tune Your Lists and Projects

With two weeks to go, a significant amount of your lists and projects should be completed, but of course there's still a ton to do. Every day should be dedicated to crossing off more items from the lists because new ones will inevitably pop up. It's unavoidable. If you're like me, 50% of your tasks won't even be on the lists, which adds to the emotional pile. With two weeks to go, some projects will need to be postponed or be put into the "on the bubble" category. Recognize that you and your spouse or partner will be more irritable and short-fused with the stress of everything. It's part of the departure process and bound to happen. Avoid being around anyone who is coughing or outright sick. Wash your hands frequently, don't touch anything you don't have to and use plenty of hand sanitizer, especially if in public places.

Only purchase fresh vegetables and perishable items you plan to consume prior to leaving.

Try to use up as much meat from your freezer/s as possible in case the power goes out while away. Nobody wants to lose expensive frozen meat if they don't have to.

Pick up your dry cleaning, last minute prescriptions or anything else that can be done in advance.

Update your lists of passwords, contacts and other important information, then put them with your staged office files.

Take your pet to be groomed.

Make copies of everything in you and your spouse or partner's wallets: driver's license, credit cards, membership cards, etc. Weed out and leave behind anything non-critical that is taking up space. Why tote your merchant loyalty cards around if those businesses are not located in your southern community?

Drop off charity donations.

Deliver smaller plants to your home team care giver.

Bring your vehicle in for service to be checked over.

Replace the hand sanitizer in your vehicle's drink holder or console with a full bottle.

Detail the interior of your vehicle. Go over anything that still needs to be done to prep it for travel.

Ensure you have all the parts and cords for your radar detector, GPS device, phone quick charger and multi-socket cigarette lighter splitter.

Don't forget to pack maps and directions. Like us, you may travel through back country or areas where there is no cell service to call for directions or use your GPS.

Give your loved ones an itinerary and contact information in case they need to reach you.

If hosting a farewell social event, keep it as simple as possible. If your staged items are covering your entire dining room table, figure out where to put them while you are hosting your guests.


Snowbird Packing and Prep Four Week Timeline

One Week Out

The final 25%

With just one week to departure, 75% or more of your lists and projects should be completed, but for every item knocked off, be ready for a new one to appear. It would be wise at this point to decide what isn't going to get done and postpone it for your return. Remember, burn out is likely to happen around this time, so be prepared to combat it with some "me" time. You may also feel less able to remember things and concentrate. Take extra care of yourself. This is not the time to get sick, but every snowbird worries about being unable to make the trip due to themselves, their loved ones and/or their pets. The emotional undertones are what add to snowbird stress levels.

Personally, I don't think this isn't the time to be working on projects such as painting your master bathroom. However, I am guilty of it with less than a week to go. Why? Because by keeping very busy, I am attempting to take my mind off everything that has or can go wrong.

Be prepared for last minute social invitations. Maybe you can squeeze it in or maybe not. If you're on the fence about a last-minute offer, politely decline and say it isn't going to work before departing. Be realistic about not taking on too much and if you must turn down an invitation, make solid plans with those person/s for your return.

Don't try to host anything. Instead, have loved ones drop by your home to say farewell, but don't extend offers of a meal. We prepared a home-cooked family luncheon mere days before departing our first season, but I now view that as a rookie mistake. It's too much work.

Only attempt essential minor shopping during the last week. This isn't the time to go on a major spree to overhaul your wardrobe. Save it for your warm weather destination.

Double check that you packed your passwords, keys and paperwork to get into your snowbird home or rental.

Finish all laundry, including clothes for your trip, bed linens and bed spreads.

Take photos of each of your vehicle's odometers.

Photograph and/or video record your favorite, most valuable and/or key possessions, then put them away out of sight.

Ensure your home team knows when and what they are doing, how to get into your home and how to contact you should a problem occur.

Start the process of acclimating to the time change in your snowbird destination. For us, there's a one hour difference, which doesn't seem like that big of a deal. Yet every year in our southern home we eat on Central Time, but we struggle to adjust our sleep patterns from Eastern Time. This means we rise at the crack of dawn and can't stay awake past 10 pm. Well, frankly, we don't actually ever fully adjust to the time change, but we do try.

Confirm your hotel reservation.

Clean high profile windows and glass on doors.

Make sure you are on track with your trash and recycling schedule to minimize anything that will sit in your garage while away.

Consume the majority of your fridge's perishables.

Finish the rest of your social plans and farewells.


Snowbird Packing and Prep Four Week Timeline

One Day To Go

Crunch Time

Vacuum and clean the floors and surfaces of your home's main areas, such as the kitchen, living and bath rooms.

Wipe down any remaining smudges on windows.

Fill your fuel tank and run the vehicle through the car wash.

Prep portions of your pet's dry food into baggies and pack into the travel bag.

Lay out your clothing for the trip to your destination.

Prepare your hotel duffel bag/s and toiletries so they can be packed the morning of departure. This is key. No one wants to make the mistake of arriving at the hotel only to realize they have to dig out their sleepwear or any misplaced items from the fully loaded vehicle.

Toss out remaining perishables from the refrigerator.

Run your final load in the dishwasher, then unload it.

Wipe down all mirrors, counter tops and last minute surfaces.

Determine when you're turning the water off OR prop all exterior sink cabinet doors open

Ensure you have your wallet/s, identification, passports (if applicable), jewelry, airfare, blank checks, phones, chargers, computer devices and so forth staged or packed.

Close blinds/window treatments as necessary.

Adjust the thermostat.

Load your vehicle except for the last minute items.

Try to get a good night's rest and travel safely!

 

"Plan your work for today and every day. Then work your plan."

-- Margaret Thatcher, former Prime Minister of the United Kingdom

Burns Night Winter Dinner Celebration

Burns Night is a historic Scottish dinner celebration that can be adapted to a cozy, romantic dinner on a dark chilly winter night BURNS NIGHT Romantic Scottish Dinner Celebration I had never heard of Burns Night until reading a chapter in a European book featuring 

Cooking Class: Five Elegant Hors d’oeuvres

Chef Patrick Whetstone expertly demonstrated elegant hors d’ oeuvres for the community cooking class Thick cut candied bbq rubbed bacon topped with garlic sauteed shrimp and fresh minced chives Beautiful bite sized purple potato salad bites stuffed with mustard aioli, hard boiled egg, bacon bits 

Snowbird Hobbies 125 Ideas

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Snowbird hobbies can be simple, creative and distinctly unique, such as constructing sand castles on the beach.

SNOWBIRD HOBBIES

125 Ideas For Snowbirds


A hobby is defined by Wikipedia as, "An activity, interest, enthusiasm, or pastime that is undertaken for pleasure or relaxation, done during one's own time." Snowbird hobbies play a large role in their lifestyle. Many snowbirds seek warm weather locales specific to their passions, such as proximity to golf courses, tennis, hiking, water front or beach and fishing. Others enjoy social hobbies such as community events, clubs and organized table or card games. Simple solo hobbies such as reading, shopping, movie, sports or television marathons and daily walks are popular with men and women of all ages. It doesn't have to be complicated or expensive to be enjoyable.

While working on this post, I was surprised to discover how many diverse hobbies I enjoy and never really thought about them as a hobby. Most snowbirds have different interests depending on whether in their northern or southern home, in large part due to locale and practicality. Planning ahead and being able to transport your northern hobbies south are also keys to successfully continuing your interests anywhere. If you can't take it with you, it's time to redirect and more than likely, it's refreshing to try something new.  I've compiled well over 125 ideas for leisure pursuits that fall into many categories, including intellectual, physical, social, spiritual and all age and price ranges with nothing special required all the way to very specialized equipment.


During our first season as snowbirds, my husband found that he had a lot more leisure time than ever before without the usual trappings of maintaining a home and obligations to extended family. It became evident he needed to refocus on something else, but what would it be?

For me, photography and blogging emerged as my strongest passions no matter where I am. However, my husband's hobbies in our primary home just don't work for our Southern home. After much thought and research, he found interests specific to our snowbird community.

For example, we both developed a new focus on eating and cooking various types of fresh local seafood. When dining out, we purposefully order fresh caught seafood that isn't typically available (or is frozen) in our landlocked community. Then we stop by the fish markets and select fresh caught seafood inspired by our restaurant meals. My husband has perfected grilled amberjack and fresh shrimp is easy and quick on the grill, baked in the oven or thrown into my signature gumbo. We've also tried to recreate restaurant favorites such as red fish, scallops, grouper and red snapper, although practice makes perfect.

Other favorite pastimes include seeking and dining at restaurants that have been featured on national television food shows, such as McGuire's Irish Pub in Destin and Gumbo Shack in Fairhope, Alabama. And making weekend day trips to attend live events, including Mardi Gras celebrations and the Sandestin Gumbo Festival plus regularly exploring new areas around our southern community, adding new areas every season. Because we live in close proximity in our snowbird condo, we began socializing with our fellow neighbors on a regular basis and now they've become like family. Not exactly hobbies in the traditional sense, but certainly fun, fulfilling and relaxing. 


Outdoor Snowbird Hobbies

Adventure Sports: Axe Throwing, Base Jumping, Bungee Jumping, Free Falling, Flyboarding/Jet Pack, Hang Gliding, Racing, Rappelling, Rock Climbing, Sky Diving, White Water Rafting, Spelunking, Ziplining

Archery

Beach Combing

Biking/Cycling

Snowbird Hobbies Live Events
Attending live events is a popular hobby for snowbirds in each of their communities [The Philmore on Broadway, Fort Wayne, Indiana]
Bird Watching

Boating: Canoeing, Jet Skis, Kayaking, Motor Boats, Sailing, Rafting

Camping

Fishing

Football: Flag or Touch

Frisbee

Gardening

Geocaching

Co-carting

Golf: Traditional and Miniature

Hiking

Hot Tubbing/Jetted Spas

Hunting: Mushrooms, Wild Game

Kite Flying

Parasailing

Sand Castle Construction

Shuffleboard

Skateboarding

Skiing: Cross Country, Snow/Downhill, Water

Snorkeling/Diving

Soccer

Stand-up Paddleboarding (SUP)

Surfing/Body Boarding

Rollerblading

Traveling/Exploring

 


Indoor Snowbird Hobbies

Blogging/Social Media

Bowling

Retail Therapy, Miramar Beach, FL
Men and women shop as a hobby at farmer's markets, consignment shops, yard sales, thrift stores and retail stores [Retail Therapy, Miramar Beach, FL]
Collecting: Coins, Objects, Seashells, Stamps

Genealogy

Learning: Classes, Languages, Skills, Special Interests

Journaling

Meditation

Movies

Music

Puzzles: Crossword, Jigsaw, Math, Rubik's Cube, Sudoku, Trivia

Reading

Singing

Television

Writing


Games

Board Games: Aggravation, Backgammon, Checkers, Chess, Clue, Connect Four, Monopoly, Othello, Scrabble

Card Games: Bridge, Canasta, Crazy Eights, Euchre, Hearts, Old Maid, Pinochle, Rummy, Solitaire, Spades, UNO, War

Casino Games: Blackjack, Craps, Poker, Roulette, Online Gaming

Group Games: Bingo, Darts, Jenga, Pictionary, Trivial Pursuit

Lawn Games: Bocce, Croquet, Horseshoes, Ladder Ball, Lawn Darts, Tailgate Toss/Cornhole

Table Games: Cribbage, Dominoes, Yahtzee

Online Gaming


Exercise/Fitness

Baseball/Softball/Wiffle Ball

Basketball

Body Building

Cardio Equipment: Bicycle, Stair Climber, Treadmill, Rowing

Crossfit

Dance

Fitness

Marathons/Triathlons

Racket Sports: Badminton, Pickle Ball, Racquetball, Tennis, Table Tennis, Squash

Running/Jogging

Swimming

Volleyball

Walking

Weight Training: Free Weights, Weight Lifting

Yoga: Regular and Chair Style


Food - Beverage Hobbies

Midlife Snowbird, The Emerald Coast, FL
Hunting morel mushrooms combines many activities and requires no special equipment

Baking

Barbecuing

Bread Making

Cheese Making

Cooking

Food Preservation

Grilling

Mixology

Smoker Cooking

Wine Tasting


Special Equipment Hobbies

Astronomy/Stargazing

Billiards

Home Brewing, Wine Making

Karaoke

Metal Detecting

Musical Instrument/s

Photography

Target Practice

Video Games

Wood Working


Arts and Crafts

Art: Bas Relief, Calligraphy, Colored Pencils, Drawing, Graphic

Design, Sculpture, Sketching

Candle Making

Crocheting

Embroidery/Cross Stitch

Jewelry Making

Knitting

Models: Miniatures, Building Models and Model Railroads/Villages

Painting: Oil, Water Color, Acrylics

Pottery

Quilting

Scrapbooking

Sewing

Stained Glass

Weaving/Tapestry

Whittling


More Snowbird Hobbies

Aesthetics: Anti-Aging, Beauty, Hair, Nails, Makeup, Spa

Antiquing

Architecture

Clubs: Bible/Religious, Books, Card Clubs, Country Clubs, Special Interests

Coaching

Couponing

Entertaining

Fantasy Sports

Flower Arranging

History

Interior Design

Landscape Design

LARP: Live Action Role Playing

Live Events: Art Shows, Concerts, Craft Shows, Festivals, Sports, Plays/Theater/Musicals, Tournaments

Sales: Person to Person or Online

Shopping: Bargain, Consignment stores, Outdoor and Farmer's Markets, Online, Retail, Thrift/Resale Stores, Yard Sales

Social Media: Blogging, FaceBook, InstaGram, Podcasting, Twitter, YouTube Channel

Teaching/Tutoring/Mentoring

Visiting breweries and wineries

Volunteering

Wellness/Nutrition


 

"You never lose a dream, it just incubates as a hobby"

-- Larry Page, Co-Founder of Google

Where Do I Belong?

Snowbirds deal with a range of coping challenges no matter where they are. [ Seaside, Florida, South Walton County] Where Do I Belong? Recently I was asked by a reader about coping with the challenges of living in and between two homes and communities. Specifically, 

Ten Layers of Snowbird Security

Cameras are priceless for peace of mind all year round. Allow plenty of time to research, install, test and tweak before departing TEN LAYERS OF SNOWBIRD SECURITY Security is essential for snowbirds who travel hundreds of miles away from their primary home for an extensive 

Weekend Lake Getaway

Exterior Oakwood Resort, facing Lake Wawasee, Syracuse, Indiana
Oakwood Resort is a gorgeous Midwestern lakefront resort, an hour's drive from our home, has beautiful spacious rooms and is dog friendly

WEEKEND LAKE GETAWAY


For us, there's a long gap from the winter snowbird season until we begin again, so weekend getaways are an economical way to balance out the summer months. After many day trips to visit a gorgeous lakefront Midwestern resort, we decided to bring our dog and spend a weekend. Wow, was it impressive! I used to think it was necessary to drive further than an hour away to find paradise, but I've been proven wrong. This is why Oakwood Resort in Syracuse, Indiana is on our list of favorite summer places.


 

Summer Lake Retreat

Oakwood Resort in Syracuse, Indiana features 77 spacious guest rooms and luxury suites

Snowbirds typically do not go on elaborate vacations during the off season, usually because they would rather invest the budget into more time in their snowbird homes. Weekend trips become a short-term way to balance the snowbird season.

This year, when planning our weekend getaway, I reasearched "glamping," which is luxurious camping with nicer accommodations than traditional camping. Generally, glamping involves a large beautiful tent set up with lamps, rugs and a real bed, so everything is ready upon arrival. I was looking for a safari-style camp site as seen on amazing travel web sites. However, in reality I couldn't find any nearby places that fit what I envisioned. Ironically, our visit to Oakwood Resort in Syracuse, Indiana became the perfect blend of lakeside resort-style glamping.


Where it all began: many day trips to Oakwood sitting on the shore of Lake Wawasee

How We Chose Our Lake Retreat

In the past, I thought it was necessary to travel by car at least four or five hours to feel a retreat is a true "getaway." In the past, this has included summer trips to the Indiana Dunes National Lakeshore; Four Winds Lakeside Inn on Lake Monroe in Bloomington, Indiana; downtown Chicago, Illinois; and Lake Michigan including South Haven, Saugatuck, Sleeping Bear Dunes National Lakeshore and Traverse City, Michigan. My husband has many fond memories at Lake Erie and Put-In-Bay, Ohio.

Now, I've changed my perspective about a summer retreat. I still want to visit places in surrounding states, but I'm more content considering places closer to home. And that is how our mini lake weekend came about.

For many summer celebrations and holidays, my husband and I sought out waterfront restaurants for day trips. After lunch we take a driving tour of the countryside, then return home. There have been visits to many charming places about an hour's drive away, but in recent years, we kept returning to one location in particular. And that is because not only does this lakeside restaurant serve delicious food, it is situated on the grounds of a beautiful resort hotel. After eating, we spent time next to the water watching the boats go past. It is a perfect way to spend an afternoon, but all too soon it is time to go home.

It was a natural progression to want to spend more time at this particular lake resort, so this summer we made that happen. You might find yourself in a similar situation. There may be a fantastic place within a relatively short drive that could potentially be your new favorite weekend getaway if you take a good look around. Search online and seek referrals. It could be a hotel resort, a bed and breakfast or perhaps a private home or cottage.


The Shores of Lake Wawasee

Our peaceful, inviting room is steps away from the water

Oakwood Resort is located on upscale Lake Wawasee, Indiana's largest natural freshwater body of water. The full service resort is an hour's drive from our home and it features many amenities such as The Pier, a lakefront restaurant/bar; a salon and spa; boutique; sandy beach; tour boat; complimentary kayaks; firepit; tailgate games; game room; fitness room and marina slips for guests' boats.

Because the hotel is dog friendly, that was a significant factor in deciding to stay at Oakwood for our lake getaway. We requested and received a room that is well-suited for a pet.

We were assigned an over-sized corner room on the ground floor featuring an extra tall ceiling and extra large windows with fantastic dual views of the lake, a comfortable sparkling white king-sized bed, mini fridge and huge bathroom with two sinks, a separate lighted vanity area and Jacuzzi® tub. The floor is pet-friendly faux plank wood and has a full-sized white couch. The room is clean, inviting and conveys "home away from home" in a comforting way. It takes us back to our own lake cottage memories.

Outside the hallway door is a sun-filled game room with over-sized windows and an exterior door leading right to the water. Steps away are bright yellow Adirondack-style chairs in a grassy area, a beautiful gazebo, tailgate style games, a beach and a firepit with plentiful supply of chopped wood in a rack. This what makes it feel like "resort style" glamping -- being next to nature without all of the work. It truly is a carefree way to spend time.

At dusk, the staff builds a campfire and guests keep it well-stoked, roasting marshmallows for s'mores. Our bright, yellow and white room, with a great lake vibe, is comfortably furnished. Right outside the door is the right amount of connection with the great outdoors. We spread a large blanket on the grass for our Golden Retriever to unwind with us as we sip our beverages.

Sitting next to the peaceful lake in the afternoon and again under the stars on a clear night, takes me back to happy childhood memories of summer camp and weeks spent with my grandparents at their lake cottage in Northern Indiana. Our 24 hour getaway is just what we need for temporarily forgetting about work, enjoying breezy lakeside meals, mental and physical restoration and a sliver of time away from home.  We plan to return again and again.


Packing List

Even a short getaway requires planning and packing, which shouldn't be a big deal for snowbirds. Yet it's not always obvious to not pack too much, but enough to be prepared for anything. An overview of what we packed:

For ourselves:

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Small suitcase with rolling wheels

Extra tote bag

Camera with two lenses

Clothing for daytime and evening

Shoes

Sunglasses

Jewelry

Beach/pool wear

Jackets

Toiletries

Books/magazines

Cell phones and chargers

Blanket

Large cooler with ice packs

Small portable cooler, just in case

Beverages and filtered water

Plastic "champagne" glasses

Insulated travel cups

Insect repellent

Portable LED light

Hand sanitizer

Umbrellas

For our dog:

Tote bag

Collar with updated tags

Leash, short

Leash, long

Large water bowl

Small water bowl

Small food bowl

Kibble, portioned in plastic containers by number of servings

Travel water in a plastic jug

Dog bed

Chew bone

Vibration collar and remote control


Sample 24 Hour Itinerary for Travelers with Pet/s

Being able to bring our Golden Retriever, Bodie was an important consideration for our getaway

Day One

♦ Morning of the trip, pack the vehicle

♦ Depart for destination several hours ahead of check-in

♦ Stop on the way for a leisurely outdoor lunch at a waterfront cafe; dogs are generally permitted on the patio of most restaurants

♦ Arrive at resort ahead of check-in for a leisurely stroll on the grounds, especially if travelling with a dog

♦ Check-in on time

♦ Unpack, unwind in the room, allow the dog time to get acclimated, especially if travelling is stressful for your pet

♦ Spend the rest of the afternoon outdoors, enjoying the water/beach/view/spa/tailgate games/amenities

♦ Dine with the dog on the patio at the resort restaurant

♦ Watch the sunset

♦ Enjoy the remainder of the evening stargazing outdoors next to the water/firepit/beach

♦ Retire to room

Day Two

♦ Get up in time for breakfast at the hotel's restaurant

♦ Take another stroll around the resort and/or enjoy the amenities

♦ Pack, check out, load vehicle

♦ Dine with the dog on the patio at the resort's restaurant

♦ Depart for home


Beautiful view from our dinner table on the patio at the resort's restaurant, The Pier

Additional Tips

Summertime is the busiest season for resorts, so consider looking into alternate options to obtain better deals. Like everyone else, we would prefer a Thursday, Friday or Saturday night stay. However, the down side of that is everything is much busier and more expensive.

Two night minimums may apply to weekend peak season stays

By switching to a Sunday - Monday stay, our resort rate decreases by $100 per night and there are much better chances of a great room being available.

A Sunday or weeknight stay might mean a nicer waterfront table at the resort's restaurant.

Another incentive might be complimentary breakfast for weekday guests.

There will likely be less of a wait for resort amenities and less competition for basics such as outdoor lounge chairs during the week

Thirty minute tours of the lake on the resort's long boat are offered at no cost to weekday guests compared to $10 per person on weekends.

Look into special packages. Incentives might include extras such as a chilled bottle of sparkling wine, fruit platter and chocolate truffles delivered to your room plus an extended check out time.

Additional discounts may be available such as military, senior, pre-paid, etc.

Review all policies. There may be a cancellation clause requiring longer notice than a typical hotel, such as two weeks' instead of 48 hours.

Review the details so you are fully informed if any services will not be available during your stay. IE, some amenities such as weekday boat tours and reduced or no lunch hours at the restaurant may apply to stays during non-peak season.

Make a note of your room number if you like it so you can request it again.

Remember, not everything on your wish list will be available at your destination. Our favorite resort does not offer a swimming pool or outdoor jetted hot tub and that's ok. Per state law, we wouldn't be able to bring our dog into swimming pool areas anyway. It also does not have private balconies or patios, which mattered less to me after staying there and realizing the public green spaces are perfectly nice too.

It's worth changing your thinking to modify your mini vacation plans and get the best of the best for a much better price. The restoration of your mind, body and soul is worth every penny, not to mention creating priceless memories.

Note: No compensation or consideration was provided by any entity for this review. It is strictly for informational purposes.


 

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