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From Snowflake to Snowbird: A Mini Report

From Snowflake to Snowbird A Mini Report from a Former Snowflake I wasn’t familiar with “snowflakes,” which are a variation of snowbirds, until a reader contacted me about it. Online Artificial intelligence (AI) defines the primary difference between snowbirds and snowflakes as the former have 

Two Alternate Travel Options To Get to Your Destination

Nashville Tennessee skyline Two Alternate Travel Options How to Get to Your Warm Weather Destination Without Driving Yourself At some point, every snowbird must decide whether to continue driving themselves to their destination. It’s a tough decision snowbirds face for various reasons.  As snowbirds age, 

Snowbird Housing Deal Breakers

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Snowbird Housing Deal Breakers

Hint: The Deal Breakers are Personal and Nuanced


Price, location, view, pet friendly and availability are all deal makers. They're also the deal breakers. However, there's more to it than that. It's the nuances of a particular rental that may or may not work for snowbirds. 

Recently, I was asked to tag along on a tour of a potential rental for two Wisconsin-based snowbird friends with an adorable Golden Retriever named Cooper. My friends decided to take a look around at the options because they weren't entirely sure about returning to their current place. Their rental rates were increasing and they had other concerns about the place. Not only did they gain valuable insight to what matters to them, the tour opened my eyes to mistakes by owners. To my astonishment, after touring several properties and considering everything, my friends decided to stay where they are.

This is an account of what the deal breakers could be and why owners should listen carefully to the feedback from potential guests. It can save a ton of headaches for both parties.

    


Plan A Year In Advance

Snowbirds in general, like to plan way in advance. As in a year or more. My neighbor, Elaine and her husband and pooch have always stayed in the same unit for the month of January. She said finally -- two years from now in 2026 -- they will be staying for January AND February. It has taken that long to get a booking for the full two months. Past availability was not a deal breaker in this case, but for many it easily could have been. Elaine didn't say, nor did I ask, if the current February occupant is aware of what is happening. Snowbirds, always stay connected with your property manager and/or owner so they can work with you on your future plans. No one wants to be blindsided.

On the flip side, Wisconsin Terri was told it was "too soon" to reserve the unit she was considering for next year. This is exactly the opposite of how I think. Again, not allowing to book a year in advance would be a solid reason for many snowbirds to keep looking.

Owners: if a guest wants to book for next year, take the reservation! If you have qualms about a cancellation, request a significantly larger deposit of a minimum of $1,000 and extend the pay-in-full due date to be 90 or 120 days in advance instead of 60 days or whatever the standard policy is for weekly rentals. It's a huge commitment for snowbirds and owners to pledge 60 consecutive days vs. the usual 7 days, but each party needs assurances they will have a solid deal.

Snowbirds: Make sure there is a solid, written contingency plan if an owner cancels your reservation or sells the property before your arrival. If you book through a management company with a large property portfolio, get it in writing that you will be rebooked into a similar or better property in the event of unforeseen circumstances. It is essential all deposits and pre-paid funds will be refunded if the owner and/or PM do not have a suitable property available.


Weather, Distance, Transportation

Unfortunately no one is aging backwards which means at some point weather, distance and transportation increasingly become a problem for snowbirds.

Several friends are facing this issue due to age, health and concerns about driving to and from their snowbird communities. Dee from Colorado relies on her son to bring her to and from her southern home in Northwest Florida. He has asked her to consider a closer location in Arizona to make it easier for him. Except there are no beaches in Arizona, which understandably puts Dee in a quandary.

The weather this winter has been one of the worst for as long as many can remember which doesn't help Dee's decision. Time will tell if distance and weather are the deal breakers for Dee.


Privacy

I've personally witnessed an increase of doorbell cameras installed on the exterior of rental properties. For some, this could be a deal breaker simply because they don't want to be photographed every time they come or go. Nor do they want their belongings, packages, guests and deliveries to be documented. Not that there's anything illicit happening, it's simply a lot for guests to accept and it could make or break a rental to snowbirds or anyone else for that matter.


Storage, Storage, Storage 

Snowbirds typically stay for at least 30 days and usually 60 or even 90+ days. They may book by the week or by the month, but it's a totally different set of needs than the weekly vacationers who are in and out in seven days.

Therefore, what might be just fine for a family who is not going to be in the unit all that much for a week in peak season compared to snowbirds who have an extended stay and accordingly bring a lot more clothing and "stuff."

I kid you not, a friend toured a property that had a locked closet in the second bedroom. Presumptively it was full of the owner's possessions. Guests are expected to put their clothes on hangers dangling from three or four racks mounted at a 90 degree angle on the bedroom wall.

No! As in, "Are you kidding me?" Absolutely there is no way I would want to spend 30-60+ days looking at clothing dangling from the walls. My friend and her husband do not share a bedroom and her husband would be the one with his clothes decorating the walls. The owner refused to make accommodations and ultimately, this was the deal breaker.


The Devil's In the Details 

Vacuum cleaners, mops, pots and pans, utensils, cleanliness, decor and more matter. Even beyond that, the details, large and small, can make or break a snowbird's willingness to rent a unit.

I know of a snowbird who didn't like the mattress in the primary bedroom. She said it was very uncomfortable and she tried every possible option to improve the situation, including sleeping on the unit's bunk bed. Worn out or sagging furniture is also another potential deal breaker.

Features such as very short vanity cabinets in the bathrooms may not be noticed in photos, but could be a problem for tall guests.

Snowbirds who can take a tour of a potential place should do so, it's worth the time to do so because you can pick up so much more than seeing photos. If it's not possible, ask a lot of open-ended questions. Prepare a list of potential deal breakers, then be honest about what your non-negotiables are. Know your limits and be patient. It can take time to find just the place. Once you find what works for you, protect your investment and plan accordingly.


 

"Use discernment. Guard your heart. Ask questions. Pay attention to red flags.”

-- Michael Bliss, Canadian Historian and Author


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Here Vs. There: A Candid Case Study

Here Vs. There: A Candid Case Study The Emotional Impact of Trading Proximity to Family for Full Time In Your Southern Community If you’ve ever wondered what it might be like to live in your snowbird community full time, consider this case study of one 

Here Vs. There: The Top Question I Am Asked the Most

Here Vs. There: The Top Question I Am Asked the Most Why Snowbirds Consciously Choose to Live In Two Places Curiosity about the choice to live in two places vs. one primary home are what I am commonly asked when the subject of being a 

What The Golden Bachelor Has in Common with Snowbirds

Lake Kalamazoo , formed as part of the Kalamazoo River connects the twin towns of Saugatuck and Douglas
Lake Kalamazoo , formed as part of the Kalamazoo River connects the twin towns of Saugatuck and Douglas

What The Golden Bachelor and Snowbirds Have in Common

The Golden Bachelor and Snowbirds Have Another Chance at Finding Love


More than 7.7 million viewers to date have watched the first season of ABC's premier hit show "The Golden Bachelor" featuring America's favorite new senior, 72 year-old Gerry Turner [pronounced GAIR-ee] who happens to live in Northeast Indiana, just like I do. Not only did ABC capture the senior viewing audience, younger fans are also watching and taking notes of dating in your 60's and 70's. As a snowbird, I've personally witnessed my snowbird friends in various stages of relationships who found love again and it's really not that different from the hit show. 

ABC created spinoff, "The Golden Bachelor" to showcase seniors after 27 successful seasons of "The Bachelor/ Bachelorette," which features the lusty antics of twenty-somethings, typically in a gorgeous setting, including the latest incarnation, "Bachelor in Paradise." Many viewers are already familiar with the premise: An attractive, single young man or woman is featured on the reality show to select their potential lifelong mate from a dating pool of alluring types who aren't shy about sharing and showing it all for the cameras. No one will accuse the young people of being boring, they put it all "out there" in more ways than one. 

We all know 20-somethings and 70-somethings are not in the same dating universe, physically or mentally. However, there's a lot to be said about the differences as well as the similarities. The differences are fairly obvious with the enticing young people of "The Bachelor/Bachelorette" just starting out with their dreams, career, love life and future families. The seniors have been there, yes, but as seniors it's much more complicated. Not only do the senior singles have to cope with the loss of a spouse due to death or divorce, their life choices are much broader with the opinions and wishes of adult children and grandchildren to contend with, financial and retirement plans and the logistics of where to live when your new flame resides in another part of the nation. It's not so easy to pack up and move from the entanglements of loved ones when you've spent most of your life building on that core family unit.

Similarities with Bachelor/Bachelorette's highlighted on the first season of The Golden Bachelor is how active and attractive the seniors are. Not only are the single seniors very energetic, they are noticeably physically fit, fashionable and fun! A little more discreet than their younger counterparts, they speak in double-entendres to flirt and finesse their onscreen romance.

Audiences of The Golden Bachelor identified with the 22 beautiful and accomplished ladies featured on the show as well as the very easy-on-the-eyes, tall, tan and handsome leading man, Gerry Turner. Ladies dream of a man like Gerry because he made each woman feel he was personally connecting with her and her alone. He attentively listened to each woman, responded to her joys and concerns and showed appreciation, all while being very diplomatic and quite charming. What's not to like? Snowbirds are very familiar with this concept, whether dating or making new friends and it definitely works.

The viewers also appreciate the genuine sincerity of the friendships and support of the ladies who lived as a group in a gorgeous Southern California "fantasy mansion" when the show filmed in August and September of 2023. Not only did the ladies share guest rooms, they shared their hopes, dreams and heartaches. They prepared meals together, styled each other's clothes, hair and makeup to look their best, had leisure time fun in the pool and looked after not just themselves, but their families at home. Several of the women made tremendous sacrifices including one who chose to be absent from her daughter's wedding and two who removed themselves from the show to be there for loved ones they felt were in great need at home. All of the ladies truly seemed to want to find love again just as much as the leading man, Mr. Turner.

Many online and interview comments have noted the personal accomplishments of the cast of The Golden Bachelor. Not only are these seniors looking for true love, they have been at that point in their life where mistakes have been made resulting in self-growth. Having had months and years of reflection, they are ready to make the move, put it all out there and go for it! Snowbirds are like-minded. They are not snowbirds because they didn't take chances and risks throughout their lives. 

The final episode of The Golden Bachelor concludes tonight, November 30, but the fascination with seniors dating and marrying in their golden years has only just begun. It isn't about scoring the "prize" of winning the first Golden Bachelor's heart, the cast is well aware there are 22 ladies vying for the affection of just one man. However, the overwhelming consensus is that single seniors, whether snowbirds or not, can find renewed optimism that their own Golden Bachelor or Golden Bachelorette is out there and like Mr. Turner, that person does exist and inspires men and women to remain active, never give up hope and keep the dream of finding love again. 

    


"Because when I look at you, I can feel it. And I look at you and I'm home.”

-- Dory, "Finding Nemo," 2003 American animated comedy-drama adventure film produced by Pixar Animation Studios for Walt Disney Pictures


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BeachFront, Ocean Front, Ocean View: What to Know

An example of prime beachfront property, the units are directly accessible to the sand at ground level. Miramar Beach, Northwest Florida. Beachfront, Ocean Front, Ocean View What to Know About the Nuances of Beach Rental Terminology Snowbirds looking for a place with “beachfront” in the 

Cook Like a Pro: The Basics

Beautiful and simple butternut squash pasta with freshly grated parmesan cheese Cook Like a Pro The basics of cooking like a professional chef When it comes to cooking, I’ve found that snowbirds fall into two groups: the non-cooks and the foodies. I consider myself a 

Where to Shop to Furnish Your Vacation Rental

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Where to Shop

Where to shop to furnish your vacation rental or second home


Personally, I'm not a shopper. I'd rather do almost anything else than run to the store for something. Professionally, I've become adept at finding everything needed to furnish our vacation rental and have invested much time and thought in choosing every single item. Nothing was purchased or returned on a whim or without weighing the pros and cons of how that item fit into the rental property or not. 

Many snowbirds own a vacation rental, second home, lake, desert or mountain home and/or simply want to know where to find the charming items stocked in their winter rental. That used to be me. Where did the owner acquire the rugs, pillows, lighting, accent pieces, furniture, artwork and outdoor patio set? Now I'm that person supplying these items and we've had guests ask, "Where exactly did the mattress come from and what is the specific model # of it?" A true compliment!

It's ironic that being a shopper in a professional capacity changes your outlook on what you are looking for. You are not only shopping for what you like, you are anticipating what your guests will like. It's not just the adults, you have to appeal to the teens and kids too. There's a mix of every personality staying in a rental unit, which means it's critical to identify the overall theme. I've written about this topic in another post [The Basics of How to Furnish a Vacation Rental Property] and it's important to get it right. A guy's rustic fishing trip kind of place is completely different than a ladies' luxury getaway or a romantic couple's retreat. 

Everything needs to work together in a cohesive way and you have to know what the limits are. When is enough, enough? How much is too much to spend? Is good enough, enough? Is it time to stop shopping?

Your furnishings must not only look appealing, they need to endure wear and tear to get through at least one entire busy season. Value, quality and brands do make a difference for many items that need to last much longer than one season. Other items, such as bath towels and wash cloths need only meet your minimal standards because they will be replaced before showing lots of wear. No one wants to use a thread-bare towel or make-up stained wash cloth. This also applies to chipped dishes. Buy a moderately priced brand that will be available from year to year and replace every single chipped item. Tired, imperfect and dirty is what many guests have at home and they want to escape to fresh everything. Below, I will share where I shopped to furnish our vacation rental. Consider every possible bricks and mortar store and online resource to find the mix that works for you.


Walmart

I love Walmart for anything where you only need the basics, large and small.

  1. Ceramic every day dinner plates, salad plates, bowls, serving platters
  2. Glassware such as short and tall drinking glasses, juice glasses, wine glasses
  3. Casserole dishes in various sizes
  4. Flatware and serving spoons
  5. Utensils such as wooden spoons, whisks, spatulas
  6. Stainless steel utensil caddy
  7. Chip-resistant Corelle bowls, dinner and salad plates (kid friendly)
  8. Coffee cups
  9. Coffee filters
  10. Dish racks and storage solutions
  11. Dish clothes
  12. Dish towels
  13. Drawer organizers
  14. Plastic wrap, aluminum foil
  15. Measuring cups and measuring spoons
  16. Plastic nesting mixing bowls
  17. Glass pitcher
  18. Plastic pitcher
  19. Nesting skillets
  20. Pots and pans in various sizes
  21. Disposable salt and pepper shakers
  22. Cleansers: toilet bowl, glass and multi-purpose
  23. Liquid hand soap
  24. Laundry soap
  25. Laundry hamper
  26. Collapsible drying rack
  27. Coffee maker
  28. Blender
  29. Toaster
  30. Iron
  31. Alarm clock with charging portals
  32. Mattress pads
  33. Mattress topper
  34. Pillows
  35. Pillow cases
  36. Batteries
  37. Light bulbs
  38. Paint brushes, drop cloth and supplies
  39. Spray paint
  40. Glass display jar for sea shells
  41. Outdoor cushions
  42. Markers, coloring books and sketch pads
  43. Games, puzzles
  44. Bar stools (I had to return them due to odd counter height)

Home Goods

Home Goods is great for discounted prices on better quality close-out items

  1. Knick knack decor items that add charm to every room
  2. Wall art
  3. Beach towels
  4. Ice bucket
  5. Wooden charcuterie board
  6. Cutting boards in various sizes
  7. Household items such as coffee mugs, measuring utensils, serving spoons
  8. Paper towel holder
  9. Decorative liquid soap dispensers for kitchen and bath
  10. Area rugs
  11. Place mats
  12. Pillows for both bed and outdoor use
  13. Vanity seat
  14. Foot stool
  15. Games, puzzles

I also shopped regularly at Tuesday Morning for these same items, but unfortunately the retailer closed it's stores in 2023

 


Big Box Stores: Lowes and Home Depot

Big box stores fill in a lot of gaps for practical household items

  1. Outdoor cushions
  2. Outdoor rugs
  3. Welcome mat
  4. Wire closet shelves
  5. Rubber wire coated dish shelves and racks
  6. Hardware such as hammer, screwdriver and miscellaneous hardware
  7. Paint brushes and spray paint
  8. Room darkening curtains
  9. Blinds
  10. Light bulbs
  11. Cleansers: for toilet bowl, glass, shower and multi-purpose
  12. Gallon-sized liquid soap refill
  13. Laundry soap

Thrift Shops

Thrift shops are ideal for pre-owned household items at a greatly reduced price. Typically, I drop off donations and then visit the shop to see if there's anything of interest. Thrift shop furniture is typically very well built if it's more than 20 years old and often will look fresh again with a new coat of paint.

  1. Barware such as gently used glass beer mugs, wine glasses, pilsner glasses and rocks glasses
  2. Games, puzzles, books
  3. Kitchenware, pots, pans, casserole dishes
  4. Furniture, mirrors, artwork, housewares

Restaurant Suppliers: Gordons Food Service

Restaurant suppliers such as Gordons Food Service are great for commercial grade products that need to wear well for many seasons.

    1. Baking sheets in multiple sizes
    2. Muffin tins
    3. Glass pitchers
    4. Serving utensils

Online

Amazon, Etsy and other online retailers such as Overstock and Wayfair offer practical specialty and unique items.

  1. Driftwood decorative bowl
  2. Knife set with butcher block holder
  3. Hand towels, wash cloths, bath towels, bath mats
  4. Hair dryer and cloth storage bag
  5. Plastic storage bags with zippers
  6. Bedspreads
  7. Custom signage
  8. Oversized plastic serving bowl
  9. Specialized Christmas/holiday decor

Surf Shops

Surf shops are great for finding local items that add that extra special touch.

  1. Starfish, specialty shells and sand dollars
  2. Beachy front door decor and signage
  3. Coastal accessories

Let's be real, there's no need to pay for free driftwood and shells from your local beach. Buy the items that you can't find at the shore.


Local Retail Shops

Local mom and pop retail or consignment shops, such as Retail Therapy in Santa Rosa Beach, Florida typically offer local products for a one-of-a-kind purchase.

  1. Original art and ready-to-frame prints by local and regional artists
  2. Handcrafted local items
  3. Books by local and regional authors
  4. One of a kind decor and items unique to the area

Local and Regional Furniture Stores

Mattress Firm, Rooms to Go and local furniture stores have practical options at various price points for big ticket items.

  1. Lamps
  2. Dressers
  3. Bedroom set
  4. Coffee tables, end tables
  5. Buffet servers
  6. Dining room set
  7. Sofas
  8. Easy chairs
  9. Mattress with adjustable tilt bed frame
  10. Mirrors
  11. Lighting
  12. Area rugs
  13. Wall art

National Retail Stores

National retailers such as Marshalls/TJ Maxx, Hobby Lobby, At Home, Kirklands, Five Below and other medium to large home stores offer items you might not find elsewhere.

  1. Mirrors and wall art
  2. Decor and accessories
  3. Kitchenware and utensils
  4. Bedding, pillows, towels, blankets, bedspreads
  5. Most any type of housewares and goods related to the home and patio

Before Bed, Bath and Beyond closed stores in 2023, I shopped there as well.


Parting Thoughts

You have to know when to edit yourself and stop shopping. If you can't do this on your own, ask a trusted friend or family member for honest feedback. No one wants to stay in a place that has too much of a good thing. If necessary, rotate your regular and seasonal accessories so returning guests feel there's something new to enjoy for their stay. Retire items that start to show a little wear, not after they are worn out or too dirty to clean. Never keep broken items, not only is it a safety hazard, it's unbecoming.

As a professional shopper, it can be fun, but it is a LOT of work. Pace yourself so you can think about each item and how it relates to what you already have. If necessary, return it or donate it to a local charity. I bought a charming $35 lamp with a sea-grass shade at Home Goods. Upon installing it in the rental unit's bedroom, it didn't quite look right. So I decided to paint it a coastal blue hue to blend in better with the decor. It still didn't look right and now it had an imperfect paint job. I felt it was time to retire the lamp. Letting go of the items that are not working for one reason or another is better than making a bad impression.

One more thing: don't forget to keep an eye on the trends. After a few years, it's important to replace dated items with fresher things, not because they actually are bad, just to keep ahead of or equal to your competition. Money can't buy happiness, but it can buy the large and small items that provide the extra special charm.


 

"Whoever said money can't buy happiness simply didn't know where to go shopping.”

-- Gertrude Stein, American Novelist, Poet, Playwright, Art Collector [1874-1946]


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Flying Snowbirds

Cosmo is an international flying snowdog who lives in Germany and has made seven round trips to NW Florida since he was a pup Flying Snowbirds Are you a good candidate to fly to your warm weather destination? Flying snowbirds are a bit of an